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>Hello Sarah, thank you for detailed reply. > >No worries, my posting schedule is all over the place >with how busy our life is. I find myself guilty of >lurking, but I do enjoy a good conversation when I am >able to find time and energy. > >Don't worry about it, but I just wanted to clarify >that my twins are mixed gender 😁. They are 9, on >their way to double digits, Sean and Emma, and >considered their behaviour I'm using a hairbrush since >last year. We were in a dire need for an upgrade. > >It's their first proper camp without mummy to hold >their hands along the way. There's no spanking policy, >well it's even forbidden as far as I know. It's simply >that Amelia is among the staff, and she helped to >organise the trip for kids in the neighbourhood she >sits for. I think it's mine two, their classmate, and >her older sister. > >I have a feeling that I've mentioned Amelia before. >She's the most passionate, energetic, loving sitter >I've ever had, and we go a long way together. > >I've met Amelia and her mom when I moved in the area >after giving birth to my two. It had been a difficult >period in my life, and Amelia's mom helped me so much. >From being a neighbour, a dear friend, a pillar of >support to an emergency sitter in need. The adversity >bonded us for life. As Amelia has been growing older >she took over the role, and now in her early twenties >she is just outstanding. > >Things were not always the same. A year into our >friendship I've witnessed how Amelia has been >disciplined, and my dear friend lost her way a bit, or >rather she had never known a better way. Few smacks >with the belt over whatever Amelia was wearing in >whatever position she has caught her was ineffective, >and it was always shrouded in this nervous and >escalating manner. We talked about it afterwards, I >shared my experiences in spanking my younger siblings >after our dad had passed away, she was just mesmerised >by it. Interestingly enough, not the different >approach to a spanking, but the loving manner it can >be conducted in. > >Amelia was embarrassed, and very, very sore girl the >next morning after I had spanked her. I can never >forget her outburst when I took off her pajamas, when >she was securely locked in place over my lap, and when >she learned just how much a wooden hairbrush stings. >Or even a hand over a bare bottom. I believe it was >the first time it actually hurt. She no longer had any >clothes to cushion swats, and she no longer had a >luxury of running away. I held her in place for as >long as I needed, and not a single swat missed its >aim. I made sure to include her upper thighs to make >sitting terribly difficult for her. Most importantly >though, when I let her up, she melted in her mother's >embrace. She said, I'm sorry, please no more, and then >she just burst crying, whimpering inaudible >apologises. Quite a difference from slammed doors a >day before. > >Amelia's last spanking was half a year ago. It was >over her grades and attitude towards the end of the >semester, and her mom reminded her that she is not too >old to be spanked. Amelia told me about this, and she >agreed she needed this spanking to get back on right >track. Which is quite peculiar. After I had spanked >her for the first time her mom bathed her, and she >used that time to lay down new rules. Amelia cried >out, noo mom I won't survive!! When she heard that the >blistered bottom was not a one time deal. > >When I saw Maria gently washing her daughter, with >utmost care and respect moving her hand from her chest >to thighs, and then her back, I felt it would be a new >beginning for them. All the frustrations and frictions >between the two disappeared. It was more than that. >Amelia's behaviour, their relationship evolved into >something different, anew. > >Maria confessed to me that I've appeared in her life >when she had been at her wits end, but the truth is >that she extended her hand to me when I needed it the >most. > >Anyways, before I get too sentimental. Caoimhe is 5, >she is a miniature version of my stubborn sister. The >amount of spankings she has received during the >morning and evening routine is bizzare at this point. >Our routine is quite simple. I pick my sweet niece >from wherever I find her 😂, and we go to her room. >I take off her clothes and give her a mountain of >tickles, hugs and kisses. I carry my little princess >to the bathroom. I start the water running, while my >little one brushes her teeth. > >In this moment Leah called me. I was out of the >bathroom for 10 seconds, and I left the doors widely >open just in case. I heard Caoimhe split out the >paste, and I turned back to tell her it was too soon. >I see her foot on the bathtub as she tries to enter. I >quickly ran up to her, wrapped my left hand around her >chest, my right under her belly between her legs and I >lifted her off. WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU ARE DOING? > >I have told Caoimhe a hundred times. You cannot enter >bathtub alone, what if you would slip, what if water >would be too hot? Silly excuses... I made her brush >teeth again and this time she hopped in under my >supervision. > >All was good until I asked her to stand up. Caoimhe >plays in the tub the entire time. I am fine with this. >I can take my time washing her hair and back when she >sits down. I just need her up for a minute, it's all I >ask for. I have tried everything. Asking her, >explaining her, making silly rhymes, singing, >occupying her hands with a toy. For a while asking her >to wash herself worked, but she got bored of that >already. She just won't stay still. I get her up, she >ducks down. I push her legs apart, she closes them >together and salutes like a soldier. I ask her to turn >around, she keeps circling. Then she kicks the water >and jumps around. > >If she has a busy day and she is tired, she is an >angel to bathe. Bathing her after a calm day is a >nightmare. > >I had enough, again. I took her out of the tub and we >went to her bedroom. Leah calls me: sis you are >wetting the floor. I said good, it will sting her >more! > >I gave Caoimhe a long spanking. She cried out after a >first slap. I could feel the sting on my wet hand. Few >more and she was bawling her eyes out. It hurts!! It >burns!! Sorrrehyyy. I be gooood!! I stopped and I gave >Caoimhe a moment to calm down a bit. I did not allow >her off my lap though. Then I lectured her about >pretty much everything, repeating the rules for a >100th time. I made sure to get a clear answers from >her and repeat why she was being spanked. Then the >spanking continued. No pauses this time. Caoimhe >became agitated and hysterical quickly and the rest is >history. > >Spanking her bottom is enough in most cases, but since >she tried to enter the bathtub alone, which she knows >is forbidden and I remind her all the time, I took a >more serious approach this time. I'm w quite strict >when it comes to safety, and I included her upper >thighs in the landing area for my hand. Those slaps >were the worst, they hurt more, and me spanking just >this area in rapid succession made it a memorable >experience. > >Caoimhe bawled in my arms for half an hour and she >cried herself to sleep. I felt her going soft and >quiet in my embrace. I wanted to put her to bed, but >she melted into my chest straddling my legs, and I >held her for a little bit longer. > >Caoimhe is going through a difficult time in her life >right now. She is not a single child anymore and mummy >and daddy have to split their attention. I'm the >oldest of 4 and I know how she feels. Suddenly her >entire world is flipped upside down, sometimes she has >to be quiet when her brother sleeps, sometimes mom >cannot be with her when she nurses her boy, and it's >very difficult to make a child understand that she is >loved very much, and her parents will always be for >her. Things got even worse when my brother in law had >to fly out for few weeks. > >So, one oldest sister to another, I'm here to help her >adjust, and make sure she has as much fun during this >summer as energy to live through, and I'm planning to >kidnap my little darling for the rest of the summer. > >Thank you for clarifying about why you had spanked >them downstairs. I have to say that I usually do the >same, but I have my favorite place when we are home >and I tend to spank there. When I decide to spank >privately I do it in consideration to feelings of >witnesses, and not the boy or a girl I'm about to >spank. > >Kathy has pulled a short straw. She must have been >sorry even before she went over your lap. Being at her >age I remember how embarrassing it was to have my >bottom bared in front of everyone. It's even worse >that you made her step out of her clothes. I am sure >that the fresh air between her legs made her very >attentive and humble during the lecture, and she spent >double time just standing there, watching her mate >bawling her eyes out. I always hated being second. >Especially when the spanking was serious. I always >looked in disbelief how blistered my mate in crime has >been becoming, and mom not slowing down the spanking. >I felt sorry for the poor fellow, but I felt even more >sorry about myself being next, knowing that my bottom >would look the same. > >Thank you for filling me in about what happened >afterwards. I absolutely adored reading about the time >and love you have given your little ones. I felt that >they went through this emotional rollercoaster. First >is the excitement of breaking the rules, then a fear >of being caught. Then it happens and all they thought >about was the incoming spanking. A humbling and >embarrassing barring, the lecture, and the spanking >that brought them to a completely different dimension. > >But once all the emotions reach the boiling point, >there is this calmness. A deep embrace in which their >screams turn into whimpers, everything is forgiven, >and you just move on. > >Have you gave girls a joined bath, or have you spent >the time alone with each one? Honestly, up to the age >when a child is comfortable with me bathing them, I >always do it if the spanking is at the bedtime. It's a >difficult choice for me to either divide my attention, >or to bathe kids together. I feel like both approaches >have its merits. > >I don't know if you are usually bathing them, or they >do it by themselves, but I love that you have went an >extra mile, and then another one in putting them to >their beds. And you even sang the songs ❤️ > >I had a healthy laugh about your girls venting their >sore bottoms. With mine many times I don't even bother >with pajamas after their bedtime spankings. They >usually kick them off and they get up all wrinkled >during the night. > >Oh no, I have wrote so much, sorry for the gibberish! >I have enjoyed your post and the detailed reply very >much. I loved every word of it. Also because, although >you spanked your girls and boys harshly, you have made >sure to make them feel loved and forgiven. I feel like >what happens after spanking is as important as >spanking itself. I always do my best to cherish the >one I spank, by bathing them, by giving them cuddles, >reading a book, or watching a movie together. > >It's one thing non spanking parents will never have. >All those motherly and deeply intimate moments with >your kids. They focus on the embarrassment and pain, >that last for 10-15 minutes, but they never see the >other side of the coin, when we spend the rest of the >day showing an endless affection. > >Thank you very much once again, and I'm sorry for a >long post. It seems all over the place. If you are >curious about anything, please feel free to ask. > >Siobhan
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