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Subject: Re: Legs together, separated, how do you get them over the knee

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Date Posted: 22:53:35 08/26/24 Mon
In reply to: Kelly, mom of 3 's message, "Legs together, separated, how do you get them over the knee" on 11:38:07 08/02/24 Fri

Kelly,

The benefits have been well covered here, not really anything for me to add. But I just wanted to say again that over the knee spanking is important to me on the loving and nurturing position it affords. My children have told me (during our post-spanking talks) that they always feel safe over my lap, however much it hurts when I spank them at the time.

When my son got to be 12, he really started to become embarrassed by my spankings. Not just when I spanked him in front of others, but when I spanked him in general. I'm sure he knew bare bottom spankings weren't ever going to change, however more embarrassing they were for him now. So instead he tried to make his plea for not going over my knee.

From around the time he was 12, he made passionate pleas more than once to spank him over his bed or over the back of the couch (although if I was spanking him the living room, he of course first made the plea for in private).

But for me, there is no other position I have used than spanking over my knees (lap), and will be the only position I will ever use. It is not only traditional, it also reminds them they are very much not too old to be taken over Mom(my)'s knee, no matter how old or big they are. That they are still going to be spanked like our naughty little boy or girl, if they act like one. Which obviously links to why my son hated it, because it certainly made him feel like my little boy being spanked over my knee, especially when he went through that "spanking time machine" and began bawling and screaming like when I spanked him as an 8 yr old.

A line I have always loved from Cherie "I dare you to show me the teenage boy who wouldn't benefit from being taken over his mother's lap with his pants pulled down for a good, sound bare bottom spanking" because it is just so true. And one of the main reasons for that being a benefit for a teenage boy (or girl) is that reminder that is not only too old to be spanked over his/her mother's knee, but also reinforces with them on who is in charge.

So anytime my son made that request (not to go over my knee), I of course turned him down. I have always felt that the added embarrassment is 'part' of the spanking. My son, as well as my girls, were spanked over my knee until their last spankings, which was their late teens.

I have always spanked with my legs together as I just have found it most comfortable that way. Also, I am relatively tall for a woman. Where my lap isn't wide, my legs are long so it's ample enough to put a child over it, even with an older one. I will lock their legs if I have to, which has only happened when I've had to administer the most serious spankings as they of course get very frantic.

I administer a large majority of my spankings in our living room. I sit on the couch most often, especially if I am spanking an older (bigger) child and use the couch for the added support. Although when spanking younger children, like my two younger grandchildren (4 & 6), I have sometimes pulled out an armless chair from the dining room table and turned it around to sit on.

In getting them over my lap, after baring them and scolding/lecturing them beforehand, making sure it is clear to them why I am spanking, I will normally just take a hold of their hand and guide them over my lap. I will guide them over, no matter their age, as none of them have any motivation in going over my lap, themselves. And I am fine with that. I actually find in 'taking them over' is another reminder letting them know they are being "taken over Mommy's knee", and not something they have any control or say in. With the younger children who are too short to taken directly over my knees, I will lift them up and place them on my lap.

Sarah

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>Kelly, > >The benefits have been well covered here, not really >anything for me to add. But I just wanted to say again >that over the knee spanking is important to me on the >loving and nurturing position it affords. My children >have told me (during our post-spanking talks) that >they always feel safe over my lap, however much it >hurts when I spank them at the time. > >When my son got to be 12, he really started to become >embarrassed by my spankings. Not just when I spanked >him in front of others, but when I spanked him in >general. I'm sure he knew bare bottom spankings >weren't ever going to change, however more >embarrassing they were for him now. So instead he >tried to make his plea for not going over my knee. > >From around the time he was 12, he made passionate >pleas more than once to spank him over his bed or over >the back of the couch (although if I was spanking him >the living room, he of course first made the plea for >in private). > >But for me, there is no other position I have used >than spanking over my knees (lap), and will be the >only position I will ever use. It is not only >traditional, it also reminds them they are very much >not too old to be taken over Mom(my)'s knee, no matter >how old or big they are. That they are still going to >be spanked like our naughty little boy or girl, if >they act like one. Which obviously links to why my son >hated it, because it certainly made him feel like my >little boy being spanked over my knee, especially when >he went through that "spanking time machine" and began >bawling and screaming like when I spanked him as an 8 >yr old. > >A line I have always loved from Cherie "I dare you to >show me the teenage boy who wouldn't benefit from >being taken over his mother's lap with his pants >pulled down for a good, sound bare bottom spanking" >because it is just so true. And one of the main >reasons for that being a benefit for a teenage boy (or >girl) is that reminder that is not only too old to be >spanked over his/her mother's knee, but also >reinforces with them on who is in charge. > >So anytime my son made that request (not to go over my >knee), I of course turned him down. I have always felt >that the added embarrassment is 'part' of the >spanking. My son, as well as my girls, were spanked >over my knee until their last spankings, which was >their late teens. > >I have always spanked with my legs together as I just >have found it most comfortable that way. Also, I am >relatively tall for a woman. Where my lap isn't wide, >my legs are long so it's ample enough to put a child >over it, even with an older one. I will lock their >legs if I have to, which has only happened when I've >had to administer the most serious spankings as they >of course get very frantic. > >I administer a large majority of my spankings in our >living room. I sit on the couch most often, especially >if I am spanking an older (bigger) child and use the >couch for the added support. Although when spanking >younger children, like my two younger grandchildren (4 >& 6), I have sometimes pulled out an armless chair >from the dining room table and turned it around to sit >on. > >In getting them over my lap, after baring them and >scolding/lecturing them beforehand, making sure it is >clear to them why I am spanking, I will normally just >take a hold of their hand and guide them over my lap. >I will guide them over, no matter their age, as none >of them have any motivation in going over my lap, >themselves. And I am fine with that. I actually find >in 'taking them over' is another reminder letting them >know they are being "taken over Mommy's knee", and not >something they have any control or say in. With the >younger children who are too short to taken directly >over my knees, I will lift them up and place them on >my lap. > > >Sarah
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