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>Hi Amanda, > >I love the idea for this thread. It's almost like >movie's epilogue. > >So, the movie is almost over. The protagonist who had >lost his way and gave in to the dark side was brought >back. Sadly, he paid the price, and hasn't returned >un-scratched (or rather un-bruised). The movie ends >with child's shrieks escaping mother's embrace. >THE END > >But it isn't, right? >I think my approach changes slightly depending on >child's age. Up to like pre-teens, I take the child to >the bathroom to clean them up. Usually a quick shower >and a round down with a wash cloth does the job. If I >spank closer to the bedtime I just bathe them instead. >The first piece of clothing they get is a warm towel. >I roll them tightly before carrying them to their >beds. Then it depends. A drying session quickly >becomes a cuddling session instead. Many times I tuck >in my children naked, or rather they fall asleep >before dressing. Putting on their pyjama pants is >always a fun experience. I do it by either sitting >them on my lap, or having them lay down on the bed. >When the waistband is getting close to their bottoms >they remind me to do it slowly, which is so adorable. >When I spank earlier during the day then pyjama day it >is. Sometimes just a t-shirt used to be enough, but >since I had stopped bathing Emma and Sean together, >they don't want the other sibling to see them naked. > >When I spank a child that is older, during or post >puberty, they are not so thrilled about running around >the house with their glowing red bottoms on display. >Just like with the younger kids I take them to the >bathroom for a shower. But once they are rolled in a >towel they have to walk by themselves, with my hands >on their shoulders leading them. While I stand up >smaller children on the bed, their older cousins >usually sit down on the edge. Some are more modest >than the others about opening the towel, but I have >yet to see a child of any age that wouldn't love all >the tickles and hugs I adore them with. I like to hold >their pyjamas, and ask them to step in before pulling >them up, as gently as I can. Then goes the shirt over >their heads, or just a night shirt or a gown for my >girls. When I spank earlier during the day then pyjama >day it is as well. > >With both cases ANYTHING BUT UNDERWEAR! They say. >Unfortunately, many times the day is not over, and >they have to get dressed properly. Once the underwear >is up, the rest is a breeze, and I do the heavy >lifting. > >I think it just depends on the child. Their age, >personality, and how shy or modest they are about >being nude. The punished ends with the last swat of >the hairbrush, everything that follows is for the >child, to make them feel better. But usually things >follows the same few patterns I described above. > >Amanda, thank you for bringing this up. The more I >thought about it, the more I realised that helping >someone dress is such a basic, but profound way to >show your affection. I mean, from the day our children >are born, and we wrap them in towels for the first >time it never changes. We go through nappies, cute >outfits, pyjamas, clothes, uniforms, any many more. It >never stops. Mummy, help me with shoes, mummy, help me >with the collar, mummy, I can't button this up. >Auntie, I can't hook up my bra, or reach the dress. > >Heck, my brothers are grown up men, and who helps them >with ties and sleeves? > >Anyway, thank you for a lovely thread Amanda. > >Sending hugs back, >Siobhan
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