VoyForums
[ Show ]
Support VoyForums
[ Shrink ]
VoyForums Announcement: Programming and providing support for this service has been a labor of love since 1997. We are one of the few services online who values our users' privacy, and have never sold your information. We have even fought hard to defend your privacy in legal cases; however, we've done it with almost no financial support -- paying out of pocket to continue providing the service. Due to the issues imposed on us by advertisers, we also stopped hosting most ads on the forums many years ago. We hope you appreciate our efforts.

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your contribution is not tax-deductible.) PayPal Acct: Feedback:

Donate to VoyForums (PayPal):

Login ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: 12345678910 ]
Subject: Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio?


Author:
Mary
[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]
Date Posted: 09:06:07 11/15/24 Fri
In reply to: Mamá to Helen 's message, "Re: Spanking severity to frequency golden ratio?" on 08:45:34 11/15/24 Fri

Helen,

I agree with Mama.

Yes, I am one that starts with her hand and goes to an implement, there are a few reasons, to me a hand spanking is most important, a bonding time, then when I go to my brush I can let the brush to the work and rest my hand especially if spanking more than one at a time. Older children reach a point where a hand spanking alone is not enough. Another is ‘tradition’ our mom and grandmother were hairbrush only spankers. But I knew from 13 years old I would be, wanted to spank with my hand.

To me, my belief on a "hand-spanking" I've always thought the skin-to-skin contact really makes the spanking more of a nurturing experience, a bonding time. To me there is nothing better, more maternal than a mom's, dad’s too or sitter’s hand being applied firmly across a child's bare bottom. I have always loved to be able to feel my hand on their bare bottom. This is also why I put the one I will spank over my lap and always will no matter their age.

Some need an implement because their hands as the child grows and gets older aren't enough to do the job required, so they add or just use an implement only. Some moms forgo the hand portion and go right to the ‘main course’ so to speak with their implement but still get the hand time in while rubbing the bottom either before, during or after, some do all three.

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]


Login ] Create Account May soon be required to post.
Post a public reply to this message | Go post a new public message
* HTML allowed in marked fields.
Message subject (required):

Name (required):

  Expression (Optional mood/title along with your name) Examples: (happy, sad, The Joyful, etc.) help)

  E-mail address (optional):

Type your message here:

Choose Message Icon: [ View Emoticons ]

Notice: Copies of your message may remain on this and other systems on internet. Please be respectful.

[ Contact Forum Admin ]


Forum timezone: GMT-5
VF Version: 3.00b, ConfDB:
Before posting please read our privacy policy.
VoyForums(tm) is a Free Service from Voyager Info-Systems.
Copyright © 1998-2019 Voyager Info-Systems. All Rights Reserved.