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>With respect to the psychological aspects, let me >weigh in on baring. I think it is better, assuming the >clothing worn by the one spanked permits, to bare once >they are over your lap. So if a girl, especially a >teen, has a full skirt, pulling it up and sliding >panties down can add to the ceremony and >embarrassment. Similarly if a boy is in pj’s or >wearing sweatpants, pulling those down once they are >in position I believe can be effective. Having her >full skirt up on a girl’s back or sweatpants at a >boys ankle can make the experience more memorable and >perhaps less likely to need a repeat. > >By the way, speaking of full skirts, has anyone ever >given or gotten spanked over a tight pencil skirt? >Does the tightness make it hurt more. > >>I want to pick up on what Sarah said in her post. She >>said: >> >>"But as I mentioned before, the embarrassment is also >>a strong and important part of the spanking process. >>And to be honest, I also view it as an added benefit >>as it just makes the spanking all that more effective >>for me, as well." >> >>I love that sentiment that embarrassment makes the >>spanking more effective for the spanker as well. >>Agreed, I love seeing embarrassment mixed with >>humbleness and dread before the spanking begins. I >>also like to see/feel resignation and submission, >>acceptance of the spanking to come. >> >>To me it's as if the spankee is verbally saying mom I >>dread what is to come and am embarrassed by it as well >>but the humbleness, resignation, submission and >>acceptance is saying mom, I know I need this even >>though I don't really want it. When I feel they are >>all humble and submissive/accepting of what is to come >>my spanking itch goes up bigtime cause I get the >>impression they know they need it. >> >>Then it feels like the act (spanking itself) is a >>unanimous decision of all and it stays with me even >>after the spanking is over. You have some >>post-spanking satisfaction as you think boy he really >>needed it and he knew it (and you kind of smile to >>yourself). I love the fact that he knew it and I gave >>it to him.
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