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Subject: Re: Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a Parent


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Laura (Matt's mom)
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Date Posted: 09:10:34 01/10/25 Fri
In reply to: MarkW 's message, "Psychology of Discipline Spankings from a Parent" on 13:15:41 01/07/25 Tue

Mark,

Realizing the importance that the bearing has in the totality of the spanking process, the psychological effects, I will never not spank my son's bottom bare or not lay him across my lap. I remember a while back Cordelia and Mary saying "Bare" is not a strong enough word." I never forgot that, it's so true, especially once the embarrassment factor sets in, for a son to be bared then turned over his mom's lap and spanked and a daughter the same with her dad.

But also as Sarah said they have to also hurt an awful lot, tears and snot have to be flowing.

There have been more than a few times when Matthew was acting the tough guy, being disrespectful, obstinate when I was about to spank him. Telling me “I bet I don’t cry, it’s not going to hurt, I’m not going to cry or nothing so just make it a short spanking and get it over with.” Once he even said as I was baring his bottom he said "go ahead I don't care." OHHH I could not wait to get him over my lap. I can tell when he has that attitude when he is angry and needs it spanked out of him.

At these times the first 7-10 spanks are slower ones but very hard and punctuated as I pause for a few seconds with me loudly scolding him as he will be trying hard not to cry but his body animations has a mind of their own that he can not stop, and soon he will be pleading being very vocal trying to beg me to stop but mostly what I hear is MOMMY and PLEEAASSEEE STOP!!! Then its just very loud crying, other then that I only pause to pick up my brush. Once the crying starts I stop the slow scolding spanks and I’m into my normal routine giving him the spanking he needs.

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