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>>Tina: >> >>I will echo the others here and say good job. I think >>a lot of the time swearing is just a habit that kids >>pick up from hearing it so much at school. That isn't >>meant to excuse it but it is a fact. I know I slipped >>up a couple of times and was spanked for expletives as >>did my brother, as did my son as well. >> >>I know at school when moms aren't around kids swear. >>At recess, before class it kind of creeps into their >>vocabularies and slips out of their mouths at home >>when they are frustrated, angry or stub their toes or >>something like that. My brother did that last one I >>recall. >> >>Then it is soap and spank time. I recall my son in >>post-spanking reflection time saying he didn't really >>mean anything by it, it was just a habit he'd gotten >>into a bit at school. > >Thank you, and yes it's definitely a habit they get in >and rarely is much thought put into it. We're only >human after all. > > >>I told him it was a habit that had to stop it and >>either he could do so himself or to be prepared for >>more soapings and spankings. >> >>I felt for him a bit as I'd sort of felt the same way >>getting it for swearing as a girl. A few soapy mouths >>and red bottoms cured us all though. I think the key >>is to tell them to stop swearing at school then it >>won't slip out at home and that is the message I would >>give. > >Well said. I do have some sympathy for this. For >example if the noise of the glass breaking had just >scared him and without thinking he said a four letter >word starting with S, I might even give a warning and >a talk about how to not create habits like that. > > >>If they really are eager to break the habit tell >>them to confess to mom each time they swear at school >>and mom will give them the help they need to break the >>habit each and every time. >> >>They will then either say "are you crazy" or ask you >>what "give them the help they need to break the habit" >>means. Nobody ever took me up on the confession for >>swearing thing but I definitely said it a few times. > >That's interesting. It would definitely require some >bravery.
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