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Subject: Re: Fanny Framing and Other Observations

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Madison
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Date Posted: 13:37:13 01/13/25 Mon
In reply to: Shannon 's message, "Re: Fanny Framing and Other Observations" on 05:33:08 01/13/25 Mon

Wonderful commentary, Shannon!

I really loved what you said here, "I firmly believe that a good spanking must be given the time it needs to be an effective and successful spanking."

That's so true! We should never lose sight of the fact there is an objective in mind to achieve, as we discipline our children, whether with a spanking or some alternative method.

IMO, a spanking is not only NOT effective, but can cause resentment on the part of the child if he or she feels it is unjustified or unfair in some way. I have to believe that most kids, if they're being completely honest with themselves, will admit to themselves they are the reason they are getting a spanking, not the parent. Honestly it's the child who "decides" a spanking is in order, not the parents, based on his or her behavior.

Just as you referred to a "successful spanking," combined with my philosophy of the child realisitically recognizing he or she is responsible for his or her plight that ends with them over a parental lap, I see this ananalogously (told y'all I like to use analogies) with a "joint business venture," where both parties work in concert to ensure a successful outcome, that the spanking was successful in terms of demonstrating accountability, as there are consequences in all of our lives for the choices we make, plus hopefully providing some level of deterrent for future, similar misbehaviors.

Because of all of this concept, at times - not always, but at times as the mood strikes me - I have made my boys bare themselves while standing next to me as I'm seated in the spanking chair, just to render them as "willing" participants and partners in this joint venture. I hope that makes sense.

Thanks for the reply,

Madison

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>Wonderful commentary, Shannon! > >I really loved what you said here, "I firmly believe >that a good spanking must be given the time it needs >to be an effective and successful spanking." > >That's so true! We should never lose sight of the >fact there is an objective in mind to achieve, as we >discipline our children, whether with a spanking or >some alternative method. > >IMO, a spanking is not only NOT effective, but can >cause resentment on the part of the child if he or she >feels it is unjustified or unfair in some way. I have >to believe that most kids, if they're being completely >honest with themselves, will admit to themselves they >are the reason they are getting a spanking, not the >parent. Honestly it's the child who "decides" a >spanking is in order, not the parents, based on his or >her behavior. > >Just as you referred to a "successful spanking," >combined with my philosophy of the child >realisitically recognizing he or she is responsible >for his or her plight that ends with them over a >parental lap, I see this ananalogously (told y'all I >like to use analogies) with a "joint business >venture," where both parties work in concert to ensure >a successful outcome, that the spanking was successful >in terms of demonstrating accountability, as there are >consequences in all of our lives for the choices we >make, plus hopefully providing some level of deterrent >for future, similar misbehaviors. > >Because of all of this concept, at times - not always, >but at times as the mood strikes me - I have made my >boys bare themselves while standing next to me as I'm >seated in the spanking chair, just to render them as >"willing" participants and partners in this joint >venture. I hope that makes sense. > >Thanks for the reply, > >Madison
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