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>Hi Sarah, > >Thank you so much for such a nice message and sharing >your support! It means a lot to me. > >It sure sounds like you have given plenty of spankings >as well for very much the same thing! Between what >you, Mary and others have shared, it sounds like this >is normal and that I did handle it correctly. > >Yes, it cracks me up when they claim they are too old, >with an older sibling sitting right there that they >know full well is still spanked. That argument >isn’t going to fly at all! :) > >I love what you said about telling them that spankings >will remain an opinion for as long as they demonstrate >the need for them! That is how I feel. I think I can >safely say that the number of birthdays that they have >means nothing. No matter the age, if a spanking is >needed it is going to happen! > >Spankings are such a great reset for boys and girls. >Both my boys have been amazing since this last >spanking. Even though it was only my youngest that >got spanked, I feel that my oldest benefitted from it >as well. He has a good view of my hairbrush really >lighting Sammy’s bottom on fire and I am sure he was >thankful that it was not him, especially since he had >been spanked only about two weeks prior. > >Thanks again for all your support! > >Hugs, Amanda J. > > > > > >>Amanda, >> >>That spanking for your youngest was so well needed and >>deserved. Where I know it's frustrating in having to >>spank for something serious (lying) again relatively >>soon, I agree with Mary in don't let yourself get too >>upset about it. It would be nice if we only had to >>punish (spank) once for each misbehavior, but that >>just isn't realistic. What we can hope is that it will >>be awhile again when they need a good spanking for >>something more serious like this. But even if it isn't >>awhile between the same misbehavior, then I still >>wouldn't get too upset about it. It just happens >>sometimes. The best thing you can do is remain >>consistent, they will learn. >> >>My son was never big on school for most of the years >>until he really kicked it in high gear in high school >>when he realized he wanted to be an engineer like his >>father. Andy has been much the same in not being a big >>fan of school. I can't tell you the amount of times I >>needed to spank both of them for lying to me about >>completing their homework. And my middle daughter when >>she was younger, where not as bad as my son or Andy, >>still was not as motivated as she could have been and >>also lied at times about doing her homework. My >>response was much the same with yourself, a pretty >>serious spanking. Along with a thoroughly soaped >>mouth, as well. >> >>That was so cute with your youngest telling you "I am >>too old for spankings!" Especially with your oldest >>right next to him! Similar to Mary, my children >>started around 12 yrs old with letting me know they >>were too old to be spanked, as well. Particularly when >>they had another birthday. "Mom, I'm 'x' now! I am too >>old to be spanked! None of my friends are spanked at >>this age!" Which was funny for my son and especially >>my youngest daughter as they well knew their two older >>siblings were spanked WELL past 12, into their late >>teens. >> >>But I told them, much like Cherie has with her boys, >>that I don't care if they think they are too old, or >>whether their friends are still spanked or not, in >>this house spankings are still an option from Mommy. >>And will remain an option until they can show me they >>no longer need them. No matter what their age is. They >>of course never liked to hear that, but it never >>stopped them from continuing to plead they were "too >>old!" >> >>Hopefully it will be awhile until your youngest (and >>oldest, for that matter!) will do anything along these >>lines again. But I am sure it 'will' happen again at >>some point. And I know your lap, and brush, will be >>ready when it does. >> >> >>Sarah
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