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> > > I once laughed when my sister-in-law Gail was about >to spank her 13-yr-old boy Ivan and he tried to argue >he was "too big" to be spanked and none of his friends >still got spankings! > I'm sure he protested because he didn't want to be >spanked in front of me. He knew he was getting a >spanking but was desperate with me there . > > The funny part was Gail actually picked up her phone >and started to make a call. Ivan gasped "mom what are >you doing?" > "I'm calling your friend Paul's parents. I'm >pretty sure they spank him but let's find out?" > > The poor boy burst into tears, "NO! MOM DON'T! >Don't talk to them! Please stop please stop just spank >me okay? Please just spank me!" > I hid my giggle. Gail wasn't even really calling, >but "too big to spank" Ivan suddenly ready to take his >spanking. > > > > >>Hi Sarah, >> >>Thank you so much for such a nice message and sharing >>your support! It means a lot to me. >> >>It sure sounds like you have given plenty of spankings >>as well for very much the same thing! Between what >>you, Mary and others have shared, it sounds like this >>is normal and that I did handle it correctly. >> >>Yes, it cracks me up when they claim they are too old, >>with an older sibling sitting right there that they >>know full well is still spanked. That argument >>isn’t going to fly at all! :) >> >>I love what you said about telling them that spankings >>will remain an opinion for as long as they demonstrate >>the need for them! That is how I feel. I think I can >>safely say that the number of birthdays that they have >>means nothing. No matter the age, if a spanking is >>needed it is going to happen! >> >>Spankings are such a great reset for boys and girls. >>Both my boys have been amazing since this last >>spanking. Even though it was only my youngest that >>got spanked, I feel that my oldest benefitted from it >>as well. He has a good view of my hairbrush really >>lighting Sammy’s bottom on fire and I am sure he was >>thankful that it was not him, especially since he had >>been spanked only about two weeks prior. >> >>Thanks again for all your support! >> >>Hugs, Amanda J. >> >> >> >> >> >>>Amanda, >>> >>>That spanking for your youngest was so well needed >and >>>deserved. Where I know it's frustrating in having to >>>spank for something serious (lying) again relatively >>>soon, I agree with Mary in don't let yourself get too >>>upset about it. It would be nice if we only had to >>>punish (spank) once for each misbehavior, but that >>>just isn't realistic. What we can hope is that it >will >>>be awhile again when they need a good spanking for >>>something more serious like this. But even if it >isn't >>>awhile between the same misbehavior, then I still >>>wouldn't get too upset about it. It just happens >>>sometimes. The best thing you can do is remain >>>consistent, they will learn. >>> >>>My son was never big on school for most of the years >>>until he really kicked it in high gear in high school >>>when he realized he wanted to be an engineer like his >>>father. Andy has been much the same in not being a >big >>>fan of school. I can't tell you the amount of times I >>>needed to spank both of them for lying to me about >>>completing their homework. And my middle daughter >when >>>she was younger, where not as bad as my son or Andy, >>>still was not as motivated as she could have been and >>>also lied at times about doing her homework. My >>>response was much the same with yourself, a pretty >>>serious spanking. Along with a thoroughly soaped >>>mouth, as well. >>> >>>That was so cute with your youngest telling you "I am >>>too old for spankings!" Especially with your oldest >>>right next to him! Similar to Mary, my children >>>started around 12 yrs old with letting me know they >>>were too old to be spanked, as well. Particularly >when >>>they had another birthday. "Mom, I'm 'x' now! I am >too >>>old to be spanked! None of my friends are spanked at >>>this age!" Which was funny for my son and especially >>>my youngest daughter as they well knew their two >older >>>siblings were spanked WELL past 12, into their late >>>teens. >>> >>>But I told them, much like Cherie has with her boys, >>>that I don't care if they think they are too old, or >>>whether their friends are still spanked or not, in >>>this house spankings are still an option from Mommy. >>>And will remain an option until they can show me they >>>no longer need them. No matter what their age is. >They >>>of course never liked to hear that, but it never >>>stopped them from continuing to plead they were "too >>>old!" >>> >>>Hopefully it will be awhile until your youngest (and >>>oldest, for that matter!) will do anything along >these >>>lines again. But I am sure it 'will' happen again at >>>some point. And I know your lap, and brush, will be >>>ready when it does. >>> >>> >>>Sarah
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