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>Kelsey, > >Another brilliant post. You are also doing brilliantly >as a spanking mom. A very enjoyable posting from you. >Spankings work, now don't get me wrong that doesn't >mean they will never do what we spanked them for or >why because they are children and will repeat it, but >spankings are quck its over and we move on and they >can be the sweetest after. > > >>Hello again! Sorry it has been several weeks since I >>last posted in this forum. For those of you who don't >>know/remember me, I am a single mother with a 10 year >>old daughter named Alice and an 8 year old son named >>Jake. Unlike most of the moms here, I did not grow up >>with spanking and I have never been spanked in my >>life. Spanking was never something I ever considered >>for my children until I recently met my neighbor >>Julie. After noticing how wonderfully well behaved her >>five kids are, I asked Julie for her secret to raising >>such well behaved youngsters and she credited it to >>her strict discipline regime of bare bottom spanking. >>With the help of Julie's experience and support I >>decided to try the same thing with my two kids. >> >>Before I started spanking, I punished my kids with >>lectures, timeouts, and taking away of privileges but >>these punishments weren't very effective towards >>getting my kids to straighten out. Thanks to my >>neighbor Julie and the good moms on this forum, I now >>understand that the most effective way to establish >>authority and control over kids is to give them a red >>hot sore bottom whenever they need it! >> >>And here we are about 7 weeks later and I am now a >>true believer that the best way to discipline a >>misbehaving child is with a good hard spanking on >>their bare bottom! Over the last 7 weeks I have been >>spanking both of my kids quite regularly. My daughter >>Alice typically needs 1 or 2 spankings a week while my >>son Jake usually needs a bit more with 2 or 3 >>spankings a week. There have been a few occasions >>where I needed to spank both of them together and also >>one occasion where I spanked Jake alongside two of >>Julie's boys during a sleepover. >> >>I try to make each spanking a very painful and >>memorable lesson for how to behave. Most spankings >>happen in our living room and the other child is >>welcome to watch (and they usually do). All spankings >>are bare bottom and always begin with undressing the >>misbehaving kid from the waist down. Once the >>miscreant child is over my knee I start firmly >>spanking with my hand. Once I'm satisfied with the >>level of crying I'm hearing from my child and the >>amount of color I see in the bottom I then switch over >>to my cherry wood hairbrush and proceed to chastise >>those buns with the brush for the majority of the >>spanking. I continue to spank away with my brush until >>every last inch of the bottom (including the sit spots >>and upper thighs) is crimson red and the child is >>screaming their lungs out. I spank without mercy and I >>know better than to let their squirming and hysterical >>pleas stop me from giving them the hard spanking they >>need! I keep spanking for as long as it takes until >>I'm fully convinced that the lesson is learned. >> >>Now that my kids understand that bad behavior results >>in a very painful spanking over mom's knee, they are >>so much better behaved! They used to misbehave pretty >>much every day but now I'd say they each misbehave >>just a couple times per week. To go from getting in >>trouble 10+ times per week to now getting in trouble >>only 1-3 times per week (and then get spanked for it >>each time) is a massive improvement! Even just >>threatening a spanking works wonders towards getting >>them to snap back to good behavior. I also noticed >>that right after a good spanking, my kids are in the >>sweetest, most delightful, and affectionate mood for a >>couple days (until they inevitably need another >>spanking). >> >>Another nice perk of this new disciplinary regime is >>that it turns out I actually rather enjoy giving a >>good spanking when it's called for. After seeing with >>my own eyes just how beneficial spankings are for my >>kids, I have absolutely no problem doing my duty as >>their mother and am happy to redden their bottoms. >>There's something very delightfully maternal about >>handling my kids in this way. My kids have such cute >>spankable bottoms and it's always a pleasure to see >>and feel those buns over my knee as I deliver some red >>hot justice to their backsides. I enjoy watching their >>bouncing cheeks go from pale white to light pink to >>darker and darker shades of red and finally two ripe >>tomatoes over my knee. The spanky dance that follows >>never fails to entertain and then there is wonderful >>post-spanking cuddle time. I honestly have never felt >>as closely bonded to my kids as I have during the last >>7 weeks. >> >>Before I discovered spanking, I used to frequently >>find myself very frustrated trying to handle my kids >>behavior and I felt a distinct lack of authority and >>control over how my kids conduct themselves. Now that >>bare bottom spanking is in my arsenal I rarely feel >>frustrated with my children. Now I feel a much higher >>level of control and confidence that when my kids >>misbehave, we will get to the bottom of the issue (no >>pun intended). I am now firmly of the opinion that >>nothing clears the air between parent and child quite >>like a good spanking. A good old fashioned spanking >>allows for the problem to be dealt with head-on and >>very quickly. It provides an emotional release for >>both the child and parent that reliably leads to some >>nice bonding time afterwards. My old punishments of >>timeouts and taking stuff away achieved none of this. >>Typically at the end of those punishments, negative >>feelings would continue to linger in both directions >>for some time afterwards and we certainly were never >>in the mood to cuddle with each other. Now whenever I >>finish giving my kids a good spanking, I can honestly >>say I'm looking forward to the next time I need to >>hand out a sore bottom. Not once after giving one of >>my kids a timeout or taking privileges away did I look >>forward to the next time I had to do that. The >>spanking itch is a very real thing! There is no >>timeout itch lol. >> >>It is now crystal clear to me that regular bare bottom >>spankings are the best way to raise children to be >>considerate and respectful adults. I see no point in >>using any other form of punishment so I have now >>retired my old methods and will exclusively rely on >>spanking as my sole form of punishment going forward. >>I feel like such a fool for not starting this years >>ago! I owe a big one to Julie (and the other sweet >>moms on this forum) to opening my eyes to a much >>better way to run your household as a mother! Thank >>you everyone!
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