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>>Hi Kimberly! >> >>Thank you for the very nice reintroduction! You are >>no doubt extremely busy with four kids, however you >>are obviously raising them right! >> >>As far as some considering the discipline you provide >>being outdated, we sure know it works! I have two >>boys and good sound spankings doing wonders for them. >>They make a big difference in our home! >> >>With your 14 year old being the oldest, how often do >>you and your husband find it necessary to spank her? >>How about your twins and the youngest? >> >>Thanks again for the great reintroduction! >> >>Amanda J. >> >> >>>Hello I’m Kimberly, 43, and the mom of 4 kids, my >>>oldest girl Andie is 14, I have twins, boy and girl, >>>Michael and Hailey, 12, and my youngest boy Ryan who >>>is 9. >>> >>>We are a traditional values, “red state” kind of >>>family and, yes, all 4 kids are spanked and will be >>>until we find it no longer find it effective. My >>>husband and I both spank, wooden spatula for minor >and >>>average offenses and the dreaded hairbrush for >serious >>>offenses. Yes, we spank on their bare bottoms and we >>>don’t care if other family members are present to >>>see it. Our means might. E considered outdated by >some >>>but for us they work. There is no abuse in our house, >>>we raise our kids in a manner we believe to be stern >>>but fair. >>> >>>Why do we spank? It works. We were both spanked and >>>turned out fine, as successful, well-adjusted adults. >>>Our kids are good kids, good students, involved in >>>extra curriculars and are with their respective >>>cohorts “popular” crowd. > >Yep, you’re right, it works and works wonders. My >kids are and have been much better behaved than others >I see. That doesn’t mean spankings aren’t still >needed in our house, quite the contrary, but the >mistakes and misbehaviors aren’t as egregious as >others I know and see. > >My eldest seems to go through spurts, good for a long >while and then a few bad weeks. The teenage girl >attitude has been rearing (no pun intended) its ugly >head a bit more than we’d prefer. I would say, on >average, she’s been spanked probably 11 or 12 times >in the last year, but, again in spurts. > >The twins are the most frequent, probably average >about one every 2 weeks or so. My youngest has learned >enough but he’s hitting the age where he is >beginning to push some boundaries so a little more >than once per month. > >My older son is beginning to have some, shall we say, >boy-his-age “reactions” to spanking and I’ve >mentioned to my husband maybe in light of that we >should consider giving the spankings in his room with >the door closed rather than in more communal parts of >the house. However, my husband has said the same >“reactions” occurred in his youth around that age >and that “it’s quite normal” and nothing to >concern ourselves with. It didn’t arouse, again no >pun intended, my concerns until I spanked him and his >twin sister in each others company the other day for >fighting and attitude. So we’ll see what happens >next time, it could have been a one-off situation.
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