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>Hey Mary, > >I really love this post from you! It feels very true >to my own (admittedly limited) experience as a >spanking mom. > >If someone had told me a few months ago that spanking >was good for bonding with your kids I would have >laughed that off as absurd. Why would corporal >punishment endear someone to you? Now I can totally >see why and I'm nodding my head in total agreement as >I read your post. A proper bare bottom spanking is an >intimate and emotionally intense experience for all >involved and it's only natural to feel bonded towards >those you share such experiences with. > >I now realize that spanking isn't just about providing >painful deterrence (although that is certainly an >important component). It's also about reaching a >cathartic emotional resolution and release of pent-up >stress. When a child goes unpunished for their >wrongdoing it is easy for them to just bury their sins >in the back of their mind and never learn from it. But >during a good sound spanking, the errant child is >forced to fully face the consequences of their actions >and emotionally process their wrongdoing with their >metaphorical eyes wide open. A spanking gives them an >opportunity to fully come to terms with their bad >behavior, make things right again, and reach full >absolution for their sins by the time the spanking is >done. > >As an adult I don't cry very often but when I do I >usually feel better. And the harder the cry, the more >emotionally cleansed I feel afterwards. The same is >undoubtedly true for kids when they are being >punished. When spanking my kids, their cries of agony >sound to my ears just as much like an act of cathartic >emotional cleansing as they do an expression of pain. >I believe this dynamic is a big reason why proper >spankings need to be really intense to get the full >effect and lighter spankings are a waste of time and >not worth doing. > >Afterwards all is forgiven and everyone is grateful to >be fully past the problem and I do not sense an ounce >of resentment towards me for painfully punishing them. >Instead they are exceptionally affectionate and want >nothing more than to cuddle me. I don't expect them to >admit it but I think they subconsciously understand >they needed the spanking and are thankful to me for >giving it to them. When they are adults I hope this >understanding moves from subconscious to fully >conscious and they will thank me for providing strict >discipline.
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