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Subject: Re: The twilight behaviour zone


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Becky to Kelsey
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Date Posted: 23:42:16 04/28/25 Mon
In reply to: Kelsey 's message, "Re: The twilight behaviour zone" on 19:22:37 04/25/25 Fri

Kelsey,

I saw this response to Mary a few days ago but am only now finding time to give you my response to your response to Mary.

First, you hit the nail squarely on the head. I agree with everything you said. I agree with your assessment that it is the emotional and psychological cleansing and the cathartic release that is really the true goal any bare bottom spanking. The congruent physical effects of the spanking; the sore, burning, throbbing bottom and the fact that even touching the freshly spanked skin is as painful as the spanking itself are what we all recognize as the signs of an effective spanking, but the true way to judge whether a spanking was effective is whether or not it brought about a change of heart.

Most people in the world live their lives trying to avoid pain, and understandably so, but Nature made no mistake when making sure that human beings were capable of experiencing pain, both physically and psychologically. Pain is Nature’s way of alerting us to the fact that something is wrong. Emotional pain in an adult relationship is often an indicator that people are not in alignment about their expectations, and a sore leg lets someone know to stop running so far and to slow down.

Children learn to regulate their nervous systems by attaching and interacting with their parents who, hopefully, have learned to regulate their own nervous systems. Until children mature, they don’t really know how to do that on their own. Children often don’t understand their feelings or how to resolve them, so sometimes they act out inappropriately. It’s a way of telling Mom and Dad that they need assistance getting themselves regulated. Oftentimes, a simple conversation with the boy or girl is all that is needed to resolve the internal turmoil, but sometimes it isn’t. When a boy or girl’s ‘call for help’ breaks the norms of acceptable behavior, or hurts or disrespects others, then it needs to be addressed separately from the child’s initial upset. Once the reason for the child’s internal upset is taken care of, then the child’s egregious and unbecoming behavior or attitude must be corrected with proper corporal punishment. This is when a proper, pants down spanking should be administered.

Before a little boy or little is spanked, he or she may be forgiven for their immature understanding of their emotions, but the child shouldn’t be forgiven for their terrible behavior until after the painful spanking has been thoroughly and properly administered to his or her bare bottom. In many ways, it is the spanking itself that conveys the forgiveness. Nature is not overly sophisticated and undoubtedly intended for a child’s bare bottom to be very sensitive, and for it to react violently to being soundly and repeatedly smacked with Mom’s wooden hairbrush. Nature, in its divine wisdom endowed children with bottoms made of nothing but muscle and flesh, neither of which can be harmed by a proper spanking. This allows for bare bottom spankings to be as long and hard as necessary without there being anything to worry about. Not only this, but Nature, in its super-duper divine wisdom made children’s bare butts super adorable and literally a joy to have bent over a parental knee. Do not scoff at this. If kids’ butts were ugly, hairy, nasty things, moms and dads wouldn’t expose them for anything. However, the fact that nature made those sweet mounds of protruded flesh, those cute buns, those perfectly smooth, hairless cheeks of heavenly delight so delicious IS NOT AN ACCIDENT. Throughout all of history, mommies and daddies have had NO PROBLEM pulling down their boys’ briefs or their little girls’ panties in order to expose and lay bare the ‘darling anatomical blessings’ created for only two purposes; sitting on and soundly spanking.

While exposing the enchanting, if not bewitching bare rear ends is the start of what Nature had intended, it is far from the full agenda. Clearly, the fact that the bodies of boys and girls bend right at the same spot as where their butts are is also not a mistake. The fact that children fit perfectly over a parental knee like a towel fits perfectly over a towel bar, is undoubtedly intentional. Only a fool would think that Nature didn’t intend for bratty children to be bent bare bottom-up ‘over the knee’ or the ‘over the lap’ for correction.

The pain that a boy or girl experiences when their bare buttocks is paddled long and hard is Nature’s way of setting things right. When bare butt skin is resoundingly struck with a wooden hairbrush or spoon (or a leather belt), blood instantly rushes to the offended area and a message is sent to the brain telling it that it should tell the mouth and lungs to scream loudly. Screaming, to ancient man, was meant to scare off the predator that was causing the pain, but today, when Mom or Dad is intentionally giving the bratty child a painful spanking, the loud yelling and screaming is instantly dismissed and the spanking continues for a very long time, as long as necessary, and until the boy or girl demonstrates a change of heart. For the child to scream “I’M SORRY MOMMY’, OR ‘I’M SORRY DADDY’ doesn’t really cut it, but it a move in the right direction. The longer the boy or girl remains bent over the knee, the longer their bare bottom remains facing the ceiling, the longer the spanking continues, the greater the chances of change. This is why, despite all the screaming, kicking, flailing, bucking and the bright red reddening of buns, no proper spanking should ever end until the bottom has been meticulously spanked. The sounds of the never-ending wooden swats and the echoing agonized yelling reverberate loudly throughout the entire house, and if done properly, let the whole neighborhood know that little Tommy or Little Sally was naughty.

After a half hour of bare bottom cornertime, the child may be forgiven for their bad behavior. Hugs and cuddling can then occur. Briefs and panties may be given back to the offending child or withheld given parental discretion.

Becky

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