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>Just one question, a repeat, on corner time. You’ve >spanked, they probably cried. After they have paid >the price for misbehaving, why prohibit rubbing? >Doesn’t that mean you have to keep watch on them? > >>>1- Otk always, never, or sometimes? >> >>Always. No matter the age. >> >>>2- Chair or bed/couch preferred? >> >>I've done all of the above, depending on situation and >>age of the child. Usually the chair is only for the >>little ones. And I will spank on the couch or bed when >>they are older for the additional support. However, >>most spankings happen in the living room, so I use the >>couch far more often than their bed. >> >>>3- Bared before going over or while in position? >> >>I've always bared them before turning them over my >>lap. I will bare them and then begin my lecture, >>making it clear to them why Mommy/Grandma is spanking >>them. >> >>>4- Leg lock? >> >>Sometimes. A leg lock will become a necessity for the >>older children when I have to give them a particularly >>serious spanking, to keep their even more frantic and >>desperate kicking under control. >> >>>5- One to be spanked made to assume the position on >>>their own, guided over, or yanked over? >> >>I will normally help guide them. It's not as if they >>are resisting me, but I just take a hold of their >>hand/wrist and gently guide them over. There is no >>yanking at all. With the little ones, it is a >>necessity, as I will actually have to lift them up and >>lay them on my lap (due to their height). >> >>>6- How far did you walk to find a place to sit? >> >>As far as I need to. When I am at home, the walk isn't >>too far to the couch or a pulled out dining room >>chair. But if we are away from home, I have made an >>extended walk many times to a restroom in a store or >>to one of the downstairs classrooms at church when >>they cannot behave during the service. >> >>>7- Did you use traveling spanks on the way? >> >>Yes, I have done this often, particularly if we have a >>long walk. Like if the children misbehave outside and >>I want to spank inside the house, I have done the >>spank-walk on many occasions. I have also given swats >>at church on the way to the classroom sometimes. >> >>>8- Ever prop a foot up on a stool, bed frame, etc., >>>and spank with the miscreant dangling over your >thigh? >> >>Not for their actual spanking, no. But I have >>sometimes done that as a preview spanking, similar to >>their 'spank-walk'. Like if they were especially >>naughty and I wanted to wait until we got home to give >>the actual (serious) spanking, so I have sometimes >>taken them out to the car and leaned them against my >>leg (or propped on my leg if they are younger) and >>given them a decent hand spanking near the vehicle. >> >>>9- Ever threaten a spanking by not mentioning the >>>“S” word but saying something like “how would >>>you like to go over my knee”? >> >>No, I'm always straight-forward with my threats and >>warnings. Do you want Mommy/Grandma to pull down your >>pants and spank your bare bottom over her knee? Keep >>it up and that is exactly what will happen." And it >>does not matter where we are at. >> >>>10- Did you refer to the position as over my knee or >>>over my lap? >> >>I have used both in my warnings and announcements. >> >>>11- Criteria for putting them back over for an >>>immediate second dose? >> >>That has been extremely rare. Breaking corner time >>rules will earn another spanking (talking or rubbing) >>and if they display behavior that apparently didn't >>change their behavior completely for the good, then I >>tell them they apparently need more time over my knee. >>But again, that has been so rare. And when I do, it is >>never another full spanking, just a good one with my >>hand. >> >>>12- Do moms or dads use the position more? >> >>I can only speak in our home, which I have >>administered almost all of the spankings and have been >>the only spanker for many years now. But even when my >>husband did spank, there were many times he only gave >>(standing up) swats. But I only spank over my knee, my >>sisters only spank over their knees, and the same with >>our mother. >> >>>13- As they age, boys or girls continue to get it >over >>>the knee more? >> >>As over the knee is the only position I have spanked >>in, my children, as well as both girls and boys under >>my care, have always gone over my knee no matter their >>age. >> >>>14- When did you start or stop putting them over your >>>knee or lap? Why? >> >>I started turning my children over my knee when they >>were around 3 yrs old, which is when they first >>started receiving proper spankings. With any other >>child under my care that I have spanked, I started >>putting them over my knee from the beginning. And I >>only stopped putting them over my knee when I stopped >>spanking them. >> >>>15- Did your kids complain about the position? >> >>Oh yes, often. Especially my son from about the time >>he turned 12 yrs old. He said "going over my knee was >>so embarrassing" and "was for little kids". But to be >>honest, one of the reasons why I continued to spank >>him in that position was not just because I found it >>easiest, but because of "how" much he hated it. And it >>reminded him that he was never too old, or too big, to >>be taken over Mommy's knee for a sound spanking if his >>behavior warranted it. >> >>>16- Did you use it for all implements: hand, brush, >>>strap? >> >>I have never used a strap. But yes, the over the knee >>position works very well still in using the hairbrush. >>It also works very well in using a wooden spoon with >>the little ones. >> >> >>Sarah
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