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Subject: Re: What has spanking deterred?


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RW
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Date Posted: 21:20:39 03/02/25 Sun
In reply to: Mary 's message, "Re: What has spanking deterred?" on 05:26:56 03/02/25 Sun

Mary,
That is so good. Yes, running away and resisting are two good ones that surely need to be deterred very early and extending the spanking is definitely one way if not the main way to deter those behaviors.

>RW,
>
>Its the same here, as my boys and their friends got
>older the reasons for needing to spank them slowed.
>
>But back when they were younger, there were a couple
>things that spankings deterred, when Donny and Bobby
>were around 5 they each ran away from me after baring
>them for their spanking, they were picked up and
>spanked all the way back to the couch the I informed
>them they would be getting a longer spanking for
>running from me. They never ran away again and there
>were a couple times were their friends Mason and one I
>am sitting for Ryan resisted going over my lap and
>they received a serious spanking for that, they never
>resisted like that again. There were also a couple
>times the boys left the yard without me or ran away
>from me into the street and they were seriously
>spanked (age apropeit) that stopped them from doing
>that. There were those particular instances when
>spankings deterred them.
>
>As I have said before, I have never spanked thinking
>“there they will never do or say that again, because
>they most likely will, they are children. To me the
>point of a spanking is to punish bad behavior, teach
>them right from wrong, too discipline, give them
>structure, protect them from making wrong dangerous
>decisions ie. safety issues. To teach them how to live
>in society that there are consequences for your
>actions and painful ones, to learn respect. Press that
>reset/reboot button.

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