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>Kelsey, > >It sounds like you are checking off all the boxes and >learning as much as you possibly can before any >underpants go down. You clearly care about your son >and daughter. Even though they might need some >structure and discipline in their lives, I suspect >that they are pretty great. If they are your kids, >they likely have a lot of good qualities. It seems >that they simply suffer from some behavior issues, but >at their cores they are healthy children. Joey, Levi >and Bailey are very much that way. They are wonderful >human beings, but they are kids and still learning. >They are at those stages where they still go through >occasional ‘growing pains’. Some they bring on >themselves, some are the result of foolishly following >the lead of friends who don’t have good judgement. I >get very frustrated with both of the boys for not >having the character to walk away from situations that >they KNOW are bad. They get caught up in stupid stuff >with their friends that they KNOW is disrespectful, >and there have been a couple of occasions where >another child’s wellbeing was truly in danger. Those >are times when I am HAPPY to see or hear the boys >getting their bare bottoms spanked like hell. Whether >it has been Gabe spanking them, or Diane, whenever >those situations have occurred the house ends up >reverberating with the loud cries of agony, and the >gunshots of thick wooden paddle meeting bare skin. The >boys’ anguished yeoowling and roaring comforts me as >I know that justice is getting delivered. I often sit >in the living room and close my eyes, and just listen >to the boys being properly punished. The sounds of a >little boy getting what he so justly deserves often >stirs me to joy, and even pleasure if I dare say it. > >Bailey is such a sweetheart, and honestly when she >gets spanked I do genuinely feel bad for her. She gets >really worked up and screams not to be spanked. When >I’m at Diane’s, Diane more often than not takes >Bailey to her bedroom, and I can hear her begging, and >begging, and begging not to be spanked, but at five >years old she’s been through the drill enough times >that she knows her crying isn’t going to change her >fate, but she still does it anyway. Most little kids >can’t control themselves when being taken to their >bedroom for a hard bare bottom spanking. It’s cute >how her panic starts with begging not to be spanked, >then it changes to not being spanked on the bare >bottom, then it changes to not being spanked hard. >Slowly, her ability to resist gets broken down and >soon enough she’s over the knee and getting her >adorable bare bottom spanked bright red. I talked with >Diane today and we both agreed that she is ready for >the wooden spoon. She will be six soon. > >We had a big snowstorm last night, so schools were >closed and Gabe stayed home. It gave Gabe and me an >opportunity to have an important private conversation. >I hadn’t yet told him about the spoon and brush that >I purchased last weekend, so I sat him down at the >kitchen table and did that. I explained to him that I >was ready. I was more than ready and was actually >looking forward to participating in this important >aspect of parenting. He smiled at me and said that he >had been waiting for months for me to get to this >point. He knew I was struggling with the issue but >also knew I would eventually stop worrying and simply >grab the bull by the horns and not just do what was >needed, but do it well and with all the confidence and >strength of a loving Mama Bear. Mama Bears, you >don’t want to mess with them. They are all love, but >if her cubs get out of line, she’ll bring them back >into line even if some genuine pain is required. I was >really happy that Gabe was so encouraging. Having both >Gabe and Diane supporting me really boosts my >confidence. I feel readier than ever to join the ranks >of a strict mama. Given my relationship to the kids, I >know that I need to be both kind and strict. I can’t >be too much of one or the other. I know what my mom >would say. She’d tell me that being strict is being >kind, and that I should lean toward commanding >respect. I can be a fun mom, but kids get tired of fun >moms. What kids desire more than anything is firm >love. > >I told Gabe that if he isn’t around and the kids >misbehave, they are going to get some good >old-fashioned, underpants down, over the knee, >discipline from me. He told me that even if he is >around, he wants me to take charge and do what needs >to be done. I suspect I will be taking one or both of >the boys over my knee first, but we will see. It could >be Bailey, in which case she will get her first bare >bottom wooden spoon spanking. She will be in for a >painful surprise. > >I agree with your assessment that you should get >comfortable with the basics of bare bottom spankings >before getting into mouth soapings, but honestly, >it’s not rocket science. I have a feeling you’d do >just fine. I’m glad you have chosen to embrace bare >bottom cornertime after spankings. Right after the >spankings, if you spank like Julie mentors you, your >kids will be in a very sorry and sore state. They >won’t be able to stop crying for a very long time, >and their rear ends will be burning hot and throbbing >hard. Rather than just sending them to their room it >is best to keep them right there, in the room where >you applied your hairbrush, and let them settle down. >Standing them in separate corners of the room, still >bare from the waist down, will allow them to cry and >come to terms with the reality that they safely made >it through. It is comforting to a child to know that >despite how much the spanking hurt, it is over now. >All that is left is to let out the last tears and let >their spanked bottoms slowly recover. By bedtime the >hot throbbing will have dissipated, and although the >heat and redness may last well into the next day, the >time of healing is upon them. If you apply your wooden >hairbrush to bare posteriors as hard as it seems Julie >is going to have you, you should expect that your kids >to have some bruised bottoms. Don’t worry. Bruises >are not a big deal. My sisters and I were always >bruised for a few days after getting a spanking from >Mom. I know Joey and Levi are always bruised after >Diane blisters them properly. > >You’ll have to figure out the best way to restrain >your daughter or son over your knee, but a lot moms >use the method that Maureen described, that of bending >the bare bottomed boy or girl over the left knee only >and using the right leg to hold down the child’s >legs. It impedes the child’s kicking, and when the >boy or girl feels utterly controlled, it reinforces >Mom’s dominance and authority. > >I’m happy to chat more here. If you feel like you >require more private conversation >bbensonheart@gmail.com > >Becky
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