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Subject: Re: Two Little Ones Get Soundly Spanked

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Sarah
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Date Posted: 23:38:00 03/10/25 Mon
In reply to: Becky 's message, "Two Little Ones Get Soundly Spanked" on 22:33:20 03/09/25 Sun

Becky,

I just got done giving a long response to Kelsey in her intro and the spanking she needed to give her son. And I wanted to finally reply to yourself, as I’ve really enjoyed the contributions you’ve made to the forum. As I told Kelsey, both of you have been wonderful additions to the forum.

I did see your original introduction maybe a week ago, but it seems the post has disappeared? I don’t know, the forum seems to act up sometimes like that. If you still have a copy of the original post, please go ahead and put it in the Reintroduction thread.

But you also have such a beautiful family. I think it is wonderful you have such a great relationship with your husband’s ex (Diane). And it’s even better she wants to do this as a team with you in raising the children. This has gone in the other direction so many times, but with your situation it is obviously the best for the children. It is clear the children already view you as a second Mom/my. And I am certain with the use of spanking, it will just increase that bond with them. However much they will hate being spanked at the time (as they should!).

But one thing I’ve found with children, is they do like having structure, boundaries, and yes, discipline. They certainly won’t admit to that. But it’s something I’ve noticed and learned that they want it as it lets them know they are loved and cared for, even if they don’t care for (hate) how it is enforced. Good, sound spankings.

Oh Becky, I am so glad Levi and Bailey were ok! That could have turned out so much worse! The spankings for them were SO well needed. I am sure you will get a resounding agreement here that besides for disobeying you, for the reason of safety is a number one cause for spanking. And it has always been a serious spanking in this home. I have never been one to count smacks in this home when I spank, even though I have an idea what I look for when to stop. But I like to keep it open-ended as I always spanked until they have received what I felt what was needed and deserved. Which is always much longer (and harder) than they feel they can take, as they’ve always made that clear.

When you spanked Levi and Bailey with choosing the number of swats, is that a cue you took from Diane? Is it something she normally has done when spanking in having an idea on amount of swats ahead of time? Or is that something you did on your own in being the first time you spanked? But those spankings for Levi and Bailey were clearly effective and certainly sent the message of what ‘can’ happen again. As well as sending the same message to Joey that he can easily be in the same position when his behavior requires it.

Also, there was another question I wanted to ask. Something you had replied to Megan about in it being possible that Gabe may let you take over discipline (spankings) entirely with the children. I am curious, is there a conversation you and Gabe have started to have on this already?

It was much that way when raising our children. If you read my “Reintroduction” post, with the exception of a very brief period, I took care of all of the spankings. (Much to their dismay!) As I was certainly the stricter parent between my husband and I. And if a spanking was needed, it was best (for the children) if I was the one who administered it.

But I know the situation is different with you and Gabe, where he has spanked them since they have been little, and from what you have said, gives them good spankings. So I was just curious when you indicated that it would be entirely possible for Gabe to let you take over completely. If there was a discussion already started and the reason for that.

Becky, I look forward to hearing more about you and your family. And as I said to Kelsey, welcome to the forum!

Sarah

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Your original introduction posting Mary 05:36:05 03/11/25 Tue

Re: Two Little Ones Get Soundly Spanked Becky to Sarah 21:57:29 03/11/25 Tue

Re: Two Little Ones Get Soundly Spanked -- Sarah to Becky, 00:07:21 03/13/25 Thu

Re: Two Little Ones Get Soundly Spanked -- Becky, 15:28:39 03/13/25 Thu

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>Becky, > >I just got done giving a long response to Kelsey in >her intro and the spanking she needed to give her son. >And I wanted to finally reply to yourself, as I’ve >really enjoyed the contributions you’ve made to the >forum. As I told Kelsey, both of you have been >wonderful additions to the forum. > >I did see your original introduction maybe a week ago, >but it seems the post has disappeared? I don’t know, >the forum seems to act up sometimes like that. If you >still have a copy of the original post, please go >ahead and put it in the Reintroduction thread. > >But you also have such a beautiful family. I think it >is wonderful you have such a great relationship with >your husband’s ex (Diane). And it’s even better >she wants to do this as a team with you in raising the >children. This has gone in the other direction so many >times, but with your situation it is obviously the >best for the children. It is clear the children >already view you as a second Mom/my. And I am certain >with the use of spanking, it will just increase that >bond with them. However much they will hate being >spanked at the time (as they should!). > >But one thing I’ve found with children, is they do >like having structure, boundaries, and yes, >discipline. They certainly won’t admit to that. But >it’s something I’ve noticed and learned that they >want it as it lets them know they are loved and cared >for, even if they don’t care for (hate) how it is >enforced. Good, sound spankings. > >Oh Becky, I am so glad Levi and Bailey were ok! That >could have turned out so much worse! The spankings for >them were SO well needed. I am sure you will get a >resounding agreement here that besides for disobeying >you, for the reason of safety is a number one cause >for spanking. And it has always been a serious >spanking in this home. I have never been one to count >smacks in this home when I spank, even though I have >an idea what I look for when to stop. But I like to >keep it open-ended as I always spanked until they have >received what I felt what was needed and deserved. >Which is always much longer (and harder) than they >feel they can take, as they’ve always made that >clear. > >When you spanked Levi and Bailey with choosing the >number of swats, is that a cue you took from Diane? Is >it something she normally has done when spanking in >having an idea on amount of swats ahead of time? Or is >that something you did on your own in being the first >time you spanked? But those spankings for Levi and >Bailey were clearly effective and certainly sent the >message of what ‘can’ happen again. As well as >sending the same message to Joey that he can easily be >in the same position when his behavior requires it. > >Also, there was another question I wanted to ask. >Something you had replied to Megan about in it being >possible that Gabe may let you take over discipline >(spankings) entirely with the children. I am curious, >is there a conversation you and Gabe have started to >have on this already? > >It was much that way when raising our children. If you >read my “Reintroduction” post, with the exception >of a very brief period, I took care of all of the >spankings. (Much to their dismay!) As I was certainly >the stricter parent between my husband and I. And if a >spanking was needed, it was best (for the children) if >I was the one who administered it. > >But I know the situation is different with you and >Gabe, where he has spanked them since they have been >little, and from what you have said, gives them good >spankings. So I was just curious when you indicated >that it would be entirely possible for Gabe to let you >take over completely. If there was a discussion >already started and the reason for that. > >Becky, I look forward to hearing more about you and >your family. And as I said to Kelsey, welcome to the >forum! > > >Sarah
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