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Subject: Re: There are times a boy just does not want to get clean


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Lois
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Date Posted: 05:05:01 03/14/25 Fri
In reply to: Sarah 's message, "Re: There are times a boy just does not want to get clean" on 23:58:22 03/13/25 Thu

Sarah,

Thank you, it is always good to see that other mums went through this as well, the support here is just what we all need.

So far Aaron hasn't yet even though he is 16 has not had that connection with girls, no girl friend here either, hopefully that will help with him when he does. The behind the ears, makes me shake my head, they can get so aggravated with me when I check there, and the hair still being dirty.


>Lois,
>
>That spanking was so needed for Stanley. I can't tell
>you the amount of times I went through that with my
>son, my nephews, and in more recent years, with Andy.
>My girls hated baths when they were really little and
>could become quite obstinate while I tried to bathe
>them, but when they started taking their own
>baths/showers I never had a problem with them not
>wanting to do a good job in cleaning themselves. You
>are right, it's just being lazy.
>
>This is just an ongoing issue with boys. Whether they
>are 5 or 15. Like Cherie mentioned, if they became
>interested in a girl that was always motivation. That
>is what happened with my son, as well. I had issues
>with my son where he did his best to avoid cleaning
>himself, which I did have to spank him for, but he was
>actually better about it than Andy.
>
>Andy doesn't have a girlfriend, but I haven't had
>issues with him not wanting to clean himself during a
>shower for a number of years now. Not since he was 14.
>But he would sometimes wet his hair down and not use
>soap and tell me he washed his hair, as well as behind
>his ears, where it was evident he did not as I could
>tell the hair was still dirty and the dirt still
>embedded behind his ear(s).
>
>Any time he lied about it, I bathed him like a little
>boy and then took him out of the bathtub, washed his
>mouth out with soap (for lying) and put him over my
>knee and gave him a sound spanking. Oh how he hated
>it. Was extremely embarrassing for him, especially
>being bathed by me. But he eventually he learned.
>
>And Stanley will learn as well, Lois.
>
>
>
>Sarah

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