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Subject: Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking


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Lois
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Date Posted: 03:36:38 03/24/24 Sun
In reply to: Carly 's message, "Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking" on 07:13:19 03/21/24 Thu

Hello Carly,

It is good to meet you. I also spank our boys who are Stanley at 13 an Tomas being a new 16 year old, mostly in their bedroom at bedtime but have spanked sitting on our sofa. I liked reading how you go about things, a brilliant post.

My spankings from start to finish are always a long affair. I started using bare bottom corner time back in 2017 after coming to Mary’s forum due to Sarah's influence and example. I do the baring then send then to the corner for 15 min as I sit on the lower bunk bed and wait admiring the view as they nervously shift their weight from one foot to the other flexing and relaxing their bottom. Then I do the same once I have them over my lap, there is nothing wrong with pausing and admiring their bare white bottom over our laps, I do that with each of my boys when I get them over my lap, I am in no hurry to start their spanking, I never rush a spanking.

Then the spanking itself, I am a hand and brush spanker as well and I too spank every inch of said bottom. I do enjoy the feel of my 'ample hand' placed firmly across their bare bottom, each spanking reacquainting them with the feel of my hard, hand spanks across their bare bottom I do love to spank with my hand with the boys over my thighs tucked in close to me, with my hand I spank at a moderate pace something just like Mary about 2 spanks per second.

I also added a brush back in 2017. I spank slower with the brush, and not as 'hard'. I still give very firm smacks though and the brush marks are evidence to that, the unmistakable sounds of my brush smacking bare bottom and their very Loud cries and blazing red hot bottom, with the appropriate amount brush marks and tears, heavy hard crying ending with a good entertaining dance let me know I gave them the spanking they needed.

My boys get time to dance and rub their bottom then if they will be serving after corner time once in the corner there is no rubbing, once they served their time they can rub all they wish. Then it's cuddle and comfort time and most times it's a bedtime spanking and they are off to bed. They stay bare per their choice and sleep that way and if it is a day time spanking it is their choice when to cover back up but they are in no hurry and let their bottoms cool down with no clothing but stay like that in their room and will put loose fitting bottoms.

Here with our two boys, at the start I will hear, “OWWW! THAT HURTS! “ because they do forget just how much it actually does hurt. Once the initial shock is over and the beginning tears move to the real crying with my spanking still going on with plenty more where that came from, I hear the symphony orchestra of the bare bottom spanking. :)


>Hello all,
>
>I know from experience! My son being 13 and he has
>begged me since he was 11 not to turn him over my knee
>and please not bare for his spankings (he wants me to
>spank him over his briefs), which of course I will not
>do! It is such a juvenile position and pre-teens and
>teens feel so silly over the parental lap then add to
>that, with their bare bottom on display so exposed
>right under their parents noses and my son will get it
>that way until he is no longer under my roof, just as
>I did!
>
>When my son needs to be spanked, in every case I send
>him to corner time in his room first. When I am ready
>to spank him I get the hairbrush and go to his room,
>where I take him out of the corner, sitting on his bed
>I undo his pants and then taking hold of his underwear
>or pj bottoms if applicable then lowering them and
>giving him a good scolding as I do that sometimes
>leaves him in tears before I even began his spanking.
>I believe this is important, both for the 'ritual'
>aspect of the spanking and also to make sure the child
>really internalizes why he is being punished. To
>interact with the boy and make sure I'm getting
>through to him, I always also ask him questions which
>he answers with 'Yes, Ma'am' and 'No, Ma'am’.
>
>After that I take hold of his left wrist my right hand
>on his back helping him over my lap, then taking my
>time to get his bottom in place, loving the sight of
>his bottom and begin the spanking, always with my hand
>initially but also with a hairbrush because I don't
>think the hand is enough (and my hand begins to hurt
>very fast as well!). I believe a thorough attention
>grabbing repented spanking takes time, I believe in
>spanking slowly and meticulously. I believe a spanking
>needs to be very loud my son kicks wildly wiggling
>away struggling, I do get a good workout holding him
>down and spanking..
>
>After the spanking, while the boy is still crying, I
>make him repeat why he has been punished and forgive
>him. I then wipe his eyes, face and he will need to
>blow his nose with a tissue. I always give him a Big
>hug when the punishment is over!
>
>How about you? Do you have a ritual to your spankings
>or is it grab, bare and spank quickly? Are you a
>methodical spanker or no pattern?

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Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spankingShannon03:38:59 03/25/24 Mon


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