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Subject: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking

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Date Posted: 07:13:19 03/21/24 Thu

Hello all,

I know from experience! My son being 13 and he has begged me since he was 11 not to turn him over my knee and please not bare for his spankings (he wants me to spank him over his briefs), which of course I will not do! It is such a juvenile position and pre-teens and teens feel so silly over the parental lap then add to that, with their bare bottom on display so exposed right under their parents noses and my son will get it that way until he is no longer under my roof, just as I did!

When my son needs to be spanked, in every case I send him to corner time in his room first. When I am ready to spank him I get the hairbrush and go to his room, where I take him out of the corner, sitting on his bed I undo his pants and then taking hold of his underwear or pj bottoms if applicable then lowering them and giving him a good scolding as I do that sometimes leaves him in tears before I even began his spanking. I believe this is important, both for the 'ritual' aspect of the spanking and also to make sure the child really internalizes why he is being punished. To interact with the boy and make sure I'm getting through to him, I always also ask him questions which he answers with 'Yes, Ma'am' and 'No, Ma'am’.

After that I take hold of his left wrist my right hand on his back helping him over my lap, then taking my time to get his bottom in place, loving the sight of his bottom and begin the spanking, always with my hand initially but also with a hairbrush because I don't think the hand is enough (and my hand begins to hurt very fast as well!). I believe a thorough attention grabbing repented spanking takes time, I believe in spanking slowly and meticulously. I believe a spanking needs to be very loud my son kicks wildly wiggling away struggling, I do get a good workout holding him down and spanking..

After the spanking, while the boy is still crying, I make him repeat why he has been punished and forgive him. I then wipe his eyes, face and he will need to blow his nose with a tissue. I always give him a Big hug when the punishment is over!

How about you? Do you have a ritual to your spankings or is it grab, bare and spank quickly? Are you a methodical spanker or no pattern?

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Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking Mary 08:13:24 03/21/24 Thu

Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking Megan 08:22:23 03/21/24 Thu

Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking Stephanie 10:15:14 03/21/24 Thu

Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking Cherie 16:46:03 03/21/24 Thu

Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking -- Megan, 17:08:59 03/21/24 Thu

Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking -- Cherie, 18:48:46 03/21/24 Thu

Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking Laura (Matt's mom) 14:01:01 03/22/24 Fri

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Re: Your thoughts on the ritual aspect of spanking Paige 13:12:18 03/25/24 Mon

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>Hello all, > >I know from experience! My son being 13 and he has >begged me since he was 11 not to turn him over my knee >and please not bare for his spankings (he wants me to >spank him over his briefs), which of course I will not >do! It is such a juvenile position and pre-teens and >teens feel so silly over the parental lap then add to >that, with their bare bottom on display so exposed >right under their parents noses and my son will get it >that way until he is no longer under my roof, just as >I did! > >When my son needs to be spanked, in every case I send >him to corner time in his room first. When I am ready >to spank him I get the hairbrush and go to his room, >where I take him out of the corner, sitting on his bed >I undo his pants and then taking hold of his underwear >or pj bottoms if applicable then lowering them and >giving him a good scolding as I do that sometimes >leaves him in tears before I even began his spanking. >I believe this is important, both for the 'ritual' >aspect of the spanking and also to make sure the child >really internalizes why he is being punished. To >interact with the boy and make sure I'm getting >through to him, I always also ask him questions which >he answers with 'Yes, Ma'am' and 'No, Ma'am’. > >After that I take hold of his left wrist my right hand >on his back helping him over my lap, then taking my >time to get his bottom in place, loving the sight of >his bottom and begin the spanking, always with my hand >initially but also with a hairbrush because I don't >think the hand is enough (and my hand begins to hurt >very fast as well!). I believe a thorough attention >grabbing repented spanking takes time, I believe in >spanking slowly and meticulously. I believe a spanking >needs to be very loud my son kicks wildly wiggling >away struggling, I do get a good workout holding him >down and spanking.. > >After the spanking, while the boy is still crying, I >make him repeat why he has been punished and forgive >him. I then wipe his eyes, face and he will need to >blow his nose with a tissue. I always give him a Big >hug when the punishment is over! > >How about you? Do you have a ritual to your spankings >or is it grab, bare and spank quickly? Are you a >methodical spanker or no pattern?
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