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Date Posted: 2024-03-14 05:10:42
Author: Hugo
Subject: Bare feet and general behaviour

Since another contributor mentioned a boy's discipline problems, I wonder whether growing up barefoot also teaches self-discipline.
When your feet are bare against the ground, you risk painful injuries but only if you aren't paying attention to where you go. As I observe in my children they all move most gracefully and choose their steps without any hesitation, avoiding any obstacles in the street. And once the temperatures aren't extremely cold (such as now) they are truly consistently barefoot wherever they go (as I mentioned they recently put all footwear out of sight and reach).
Like all kids they need occasional reminders (nobody is perfect, we're all on the way all life long) but are generally quite accessible to reasonable arguments. They're reliable enough, back home on time when they go out, they follow up on their promises and are respectful towards others. That's a particularly important aspect, they don't want to hurt anyone so they're careful not to say anything insulting.
Now I wouldn't say going barefoot is a cure against all discipline problems, there's a lot of potential root causes for this, but maybe the extra attention that they have to give as they walk so that they won't get hurt is also applied in other aspects of childhood life. They might be just the same if they wore shoes but I like to think their bare feet contribute, reminding them at every step to take care of themselves and have empathy for others.

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