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] Date Posted: 16:04:27 05/26/25 Mon My sister and young niece moved in with me due to some personal reasons including financial reasons. They have been here almost two weeks now. I had heard that my sister had been having terrible problems with my niece getting into all kinds of trouble at school and at home and even worse in public. She has been caught stealing from several different stores and suspended from her last school twice before moving in with me. She also started a new school closer to my home and already got into trouble for being disrespectful to her teacher. You would think I am talking about an older child or teenager when infact she has recently turned eleven years old. I apologise for going on here and my issues are that my sister is not physically able to handle her because of some health problems going on for her. She has asked me three times now would I spank her daughter and exactly how we were spanked growing up. Which is completely naked and with our parents hands or other implements. My niece is becoming worse and when I got back home earlier after being visiting friends of mine. I was informed by my sister that my niece wandered through the door at almost eleven at night and started arguing with my sister when confronted about not answering her phone and despite being grounded which she completely ignores any consequences for her bad behaviour. I looked in and she was asleep and my sister was obviously quite upset about the whole thing. She has practically begged me to spank her in the morning and suggested that she would wake her up early and asked me to please basically save my niece from destroying her life. I have honestly never spanked anyone before I am wondering if I should keep her panties on or how and what to use on her. I work in construction and I know that my hand would definitely be sufficient enough to make an impression on her bottom for sure. I sound like my niece is an awful child and she can be extremely affectionate at times and switches from one thing to another. She has on a few occasions sat on my lap and snuggled up to me watching television and even falling asleep on my chest and I carried her to bed. Sincerely appreciate any advice here thanks... [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: scamptoo to Dean. [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 14:06:50 05/27/25 Tue I think you should spank your niece as your sister has asked you to do. A hand spanking should do, but that is just my opinion and others might have differing opinions. As for if you should spank her panties on that is up to you and your sister. Have you even asked your sister HOW she wants you to spank your niece, panties on or completely bare like the two of you used to get it? . [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Dean to scamptoo. [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 15:44:56 05/27/25 Tue Thank you so much for your reply here and I had almost given up on receiving a message from anyone here. I am not too sure if you red my message right through. Because my sister had suggested that I do spank my niece like we were spanked growing up and as I said naked. I also mentioned that I would not feel the need to use anything other than my hand. Not boasting or anything here. I said that I work in construction and my hands are fairly big and tough enough to certainly make an impression on her backside. I appreciate your message and particularly your honesty here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lindsay to Dean [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 18:05:47 05/27/25 Tue Hi there Dean, Your situation sounds much like the 16 kids that we have here on a maintenance program which is literally turned their lives around. Many came in acting just like your niece and have done a complete turnaround in their lives. The secret is something called maintenance and it is actually fairly easy to implement, takes very little time and I would suggest that the very little spanking that's involved, it's not a punishment, be done by you since it sounds like your sister isn't capable. What it results in is very nice bonding within the family. You see many threads here that address maintenance. You can read through any of them and although several have become shall I say off color, that was never the intent of the process. It basically involves picking a day and a time or two days a week and sticking religiously to those times. Your niece goes to her room, undresses completely, folds her clothes neatly on her bed or somewhere, and then waits for you in the living room. When you two are ready, you shouldn't make her wait more than a few minutes, you have her stand up in front of you and discuss how her behavior has been for the last several days since the last session. This is a time to emphasize the good things that she's done, helping around the house, helping other people, school work as well as the things that need to be worked on and it sounds like there's plenty of those. I just wrote this to a woman who is going to implement it this summer with her four children. You should have it much easier time as you only have one. This describes the entire process, so please let me know if you have any questions. https://www.voy.com/247946/53787.html Your night niece is a perfect age for the program. The majority of kids here are 11 years old, some as young as nine and old as 12. The most important part as you will read is the comforting and cuddling that you do after the spanking which as I indicated should be relatively easy. You will read that several parents have moved it up when they started with just 20 Spanx and maybe a few for misbehavior all the way up to 6 7 and 800 strokes for their kids now. I never recommended this and I think I would start out easy in your niece's case and you and your sister make the decision if you want to go higher. You'll also see that there is several cases where the comforting has escalated too much higher levels. This is nothing I ever recommended and I would certainly go easy with your niece as you begin the program. It does seem to work like magic and is a perfect solution for your particular case. Good luck to you and let me know if I can help. I live in Hawaii so I am several times away from most people here but I certainly help as much as I can. Best of luck to you, Lindsay [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: scamptoo to Dean [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 10:47:23 05/28/25 Wed The reason that you didn't get any quick replies to your message is because this is not a chat board. It is a message board and you can't be sure if anyone is online when you post your message. In a regular chat forum there is a panel showing who is there presently for immediate chat sessions. In a message forum, such as this one, you don't know if anyone is here at the same time that you are posting your message. If your sister had suggested that you do spank your niece like the two of you were spanked growing up, that being naked, then that would seem to me to be the way to go. I did read your post right through, and got the impression that you weren't quite on board with spanking your niece naked, and I replied that you should do it as your sister was asking you to do so. Yes, I also read that you worked in construction, and that you have large hands that can cover your niece's entire bottom and with enough force to make an impression on her backside. I'm sorry if there was any confusion about what I was trying to say to you. Let us know what you decided, in which way you will spank her. . [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: curious to Dean [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:15:14 05/28/25 Wed i see that you have a few suggestions as to how to handle the situation with your niece. you don't need to do any maintenance spankings unless you intend to get into some sort of spanking competition with other maintenance spanking parents. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Melinda to Jean [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:26:14 05/28/25 Wed Hi there Dean, Please pay no attention to this troll curious, I'm having to go behind them today and clean up his mess. Maintenance is in fact a very successful program and has worked wonders on this forum. The hundreds of spankings that you read about in some of the threads are brought on by the parents, not the originator. In fact she argues strongly against it. Good luck to you, Melinda [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: curious to Melinda [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 13:49:25 05/28/25 Wed his name is dean not jean. it seems that your iPad did the same thing to Dean's name that lindsay's iPad does to a lot of people's names. hmmmm, makes one wonder doesn't it? and who designated you to be the one on this forum to go and "clean up his mess"? that is the sole job of the moderator and i know for a fact that that isn't you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Betty to Melinda [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 13:56:45 05/28/25 Wed Curious does have a point, about that name changing thing. Many people use an ipad but they don't have the same problem that you and Lindsay have with your ipad changing the names of posters here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Dean to scamptoo and others. [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:20:17 05/28/25 Wed I will keep you all posted on things here. I am going to leave and look for my niece who is still not home yet. I am not going to use maintenance spankings and although we appreciate everything here from everyone. But I will be given her a spanking like my sister and I used to receive growing up. Thank you all again for everything. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Ellen to Dean [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 02:13:21 05/29/25 Thu Hi Dean from a fellow parent of a preteen. Your situation sounds almost identical to mine when I first started out. My daughter is now 12 and is a completely different person from a year ago. She is polite, respectful and a joy to be with. And I owe it all to starting maintenance sessions similar to what Lindsay is describing a couple of weeks after I thought her behavior was going to result in me giving her up for adoption. Not really but close. I'm telling you you have a real gift in Lindsay saying that she'll work with you. I know that she has been very successful here and has turned many lives around. I'm telling you that situations like you dealt with tonight will disappear and you are going to feel a lot closer to your niece than you ever have and her mommy will too. I'm also telling you that she will come to look forward to maintenance sessions for the wonderful comforting and cuddling as much as anything else. I really wish someone had told me more about this when I was first starting out. Fortunately only took me a couple of weeks, but just remember when you're getting frustrated by hit and miss spanking, maintenance is almost magical. And from reading this forum, don't take my word for it, I'd say ask any of the 20 or more parents who are being successful with it here. Good luck to you regardless, Ellen [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Dean to scamptoo and others. [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 14:46:55 05/28/25 Wed Thank you all again for everything and my sister and I appreciate you all. I mentioned that although very much appreciated. We are not going along with the maintenance spankings. But my niece is in bed now sobbing and spanked for the first time in her life. I ended up finding her with a group of older teens and smoking. She was completely taken off guard and I snatched the cigarette from her and planted a mighty whack on her skirt. She was screaming blue murder and using unbelievable language. I ended up smacking her bottom several times to get her moving and holding her elbow. Once in the car she started kicking my seat. I needed to pull over twice and smacked her legs because she was curling up in a ball in the backseat. Once home I took her out of the car and smacked her bottom all the way to the front door with her screaming and trying to get away obviously. My sister was about to scold her and I said please leave it to me. I told my niece to get into the shower right now and she refused of course calling me names and slamming doors. I put her over my lap and spanked her panties and she was shouting and screaming and begging and saying she would have a shower. Once I let her up she ran to the bathroom and I heard her getting something out of her bedroom and my sister was really upset. But said thank you for this and in the meantime my niece was in the shower and after her shower she was making a racket and ended up smashing a mirror. Thankfully she was ok and I just looked at my sister and went into the bathroom and took my niece by her hand kicking and screaming and she was only wearing a towel which fell off of course. She was trying to cover up and without being rude she has obviously nothing to hide. But she was continuing to use fowl language and kicking and struggling until I managed to sit down and get her over my lap and spanked her long and hard with my hand she was not given up and after a few minutes from given attitude and bad language she went from that to sorry to begging me to stop and laying limp over my lap with snots and tears and saying that she loves me and I finished off with twenty spanks across each butt cheek and put her standing up and of course the usual spank dance afterwards. Then I gave her a hug and kiss and said we love her and apologise to her mommy which she did and was given hugs and kisses. I said corner now for half an hour and she was about to argue with me. I spanked her again standing up and put her in timeout. She then washed to cuddle with me and after a while I said bedtime sweetie and give mommy a hug and kiss which she did. I put her to bed still naked and crying and dried her and her hair. Thank you for everything folks.... [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Ellen to Dean [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 02:24:14 05/29/25 Thu Hi from a fellow preteen daughter parent. Just got shoved up above, but please read it when you get a chance. Best of luck to you! https://www.voy.com/247946/54178.html [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: scamptoo to Dean [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 09:24:33 05/29/25 Thu Good on you Dean for taking charge. She'll probably be a bit cross with you for a bit but in the end all will work out just fine. . [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Dean to scamptoo and others. [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 09:57:20 05/29/25 Thu I appreciate it friend and you are correct about my niece and she is not a happy little girl. Because she is grounded and this is the first time she has been grounded and actually someone following through with it. She received another spanking earlier for disrespecting my sister. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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