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>>It’s possible I’m being overly paranoid about >>this, so maybe others with experience in this sort of >>thing can let me know if I’m doing too much here. >> >>Whenever I give my daughter a spanking, unless it’s >>a relatively mild spanking (which does happen on >>occasion), I always examine her butt the next day. For >>marks that take longer to heal, I will examine her >>butt over the next several days to make sure it’s >>recovering as it should. >> >>These checks are usually pretty quick. I will have her >>lie facedown on her bed with butt bared. I use a >>bright flashlight since bruising can sometimes be a >>bit difficult to see clearly. Once I’m satisfied >>that everything is as expected, I let her fix her >>clothing. All in all, this probably takes around a >>minute to do. >> >>If she has bruising, I require her to apply Arnicare >>cream twice a day. However, since this is something >>she is capable of handling on her own, I leave that to >>her. >> >>What’s kind of funny is that my daughter complains >>about these checks being embarrassing, but she >>doesn’t have that complaint when she is bare for a >>spanking. So her butt being bare so I can smack it is >>fine, but it being bare so I can just look at it >>briefly is embarrassing? Whether she’s embarrassed >>or not though, I’ve told her that this is just part >>of it and she should expect this whenever she gets >>spanked. >> >>In my reasoning, if I leave welts and bruises on her >>butt, then I have an obligation to check up on her >>afterwards to make sure she heals. I’m just not >>comfortable with the idea of tearing up her butt like >>that and then just forgetting about it. >> >>However, people I’ve talked to have assured me that >>as long as I’m spanking safely and only hitting safe >>spots, that the butt can take a good beating with no >>problem and I’m being a little overly concerned >>about something that isn’t that big of a deal. >> >>However, the flip side is that aside from flashlight >>batteries, it literally costs nothing for me to take a >>minute out of my day and check. If it’s embarrassing >>for my daughter, then well… that’s just part of >>being spanked. >> >>So, am I being overly cautious or is it important that >>I keep checking? > >It is very important to check for damage.

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