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>>I am a single mother with a 13 year old son, Ted. >>Three weeks ago he earned a paddling at the private >>school he attends for knocking another student down in >>anger during recess. He got 6 strokes of the paddle on >>his bare bottom from his female principal, which kept >>his school paper record clean. Otherwise it was >>detention after school for a week and a notation of >>the incident on his permanent record. I agreed to the >>paddling option and attended it. >> >>The principal, with Ted's female teacher as a witness >>along with me and the the principal's female secretary >>were the other witnesses. Ted had to remove his shoes >>and socks, his tie and shirt, his pants and shorts, >>and lean over her desk in just his undershirt with his >>legs spread wide and his bottom well positioned for >>the paddle. >> >>He got six real zingers and Ted howled on every one >>and was blubbering and sobbing hard when it was over, >>but he stayed in place and took the paddling very >>well, although he danced a few steps after each stroke >>before resuming his position, and also danced and >>hopped about a bit after the 6th stroke landed. I was >>very proud of the way he took the paddling. And I was >>particularly surprised he took that physical >>punishment so well because he had not been spanked at >>home by me since he was about six years old. On the >>way home I told him how proud I was of him and how >>pleased he took his spanking like a real little man >>and not a sissy crybaby. >> >>This was a Friday and before we left the office, the >>principal told me in Ted's hearing that if he were her >>son she would give him a good bare bottom spanking >>with a hairbrush at his bedtime to teach him that >>spanked at school means spanked at home. I gave that a >>lot of thought, knowing Ted had heard her recommend >>that, and very frankly I found the idea of putting him >>over my lap and giving him a good spanking myself >>really excited me. My palms were sweating holding the >>steering wheel driving home and the more I thought >>about it the better I liked the idea. >> >>That evening at his bedtime, right after his bath, I >>went up and despite the fact that I could see that his >>bottom was still bright pink and clearly tender, I sat >>on his bed and put him over my lap and spanked him >>with my hand, and then I used my oval wooden hairbrush >>on him and really made him howl and cry hard. >>Afterwards, while I held and kissed and cuddled him, >>he said he could tell by my face driving home that I >>was going to spank him at his bedtime. >> >>Since that night, in this three weeks, I have spanked >>Ted at his bedtime four times for fairly minor >>offenses, but for things he knows he is not supposed >>to do. Each time he has taken these spankings very >>well, without showing any resistance and without any >>whining or begging to be let off. It is like we have >>both accepted the fact that spanking is now back on >>the table as the primary means of discipline for him. >> >>Every time I have spanked him he goes over my lap >>stoically and takes his spankings very well, crying >>and bawling very hard when I use the hairbrush, and >>doing a lively spanking dance when I let him up. He is >>always erected before he goes over my lap but he loses >>that pretty quickly as I am spanking him, so that has >>not been a problem. I have noticed that he gets stiff >>again as I hold and cuddle him after spankings and >>before I leave his room to let him go to sleep, and I >>do see stiffened washcloths going into the hamper >>almost every morning so I am aware he masturbates a >>lot, which does not bother or upset me at all. >> >>His conduct and attitude with me, not surprisingly I >>guess, has really been very good on the whole lately >>and the spankings I am giving him seem to encourage >>that. For myself, I find I quite enjoy spanking him, >>much more than I would have thought or expected, and I >>have found spanking him once or twice a week to be for >>me quite a pleasant form of discipline to employ with >>him, and for him at least an apparently acceptable >>form of discipline that does not seem to upset him >>very much. >> >>Have any other parents found that a school spanking >>has led to a change in how they are disciplining their >>boys and girls? Nancy. I am 17 and my school paddles >in Alabama they text the parents it is another >paddling at home by my stepdad for a paddling in >school I am on spring break it started yesterday the >last school paddling I got was for parking in the >wrong parking lot two licks I did not cry . My stepdad >uses a home small round paddle part long handle on my >stepsisters on I he paddle over his knee . I cried a >little that night when I got that paddle at bedtime no >biggie problem both were deserved

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