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>Dear Cody, > >THIS WILL BE VERY VERY LONG--BUT I WILL TRY TO ANSWER >ALL YOUR QUESTIONS > >Really loved this last note from you. I was really >afraid from the prior note that you were beginning to >think I was some kind of sadist just salivating over >your spankings and urging you to get more. I missed >your tongue-in-cheek humor that time, which I also >love about you. I will try to use your own message to >answer your questions. >____________ >You note: >I fully understand your point about suggesting I tell >Mom she can strap me. She is obviously happy to be a >spanker again and there's likely some part of her that >is intrigued to try out the belt. But it sure doesn't >seem likely that I'm gonna get in that kinda trouble >any time soon (possibly ever). [EXACTLY. THAT IS WHAT >I WAS CONCERNED ABOUT—EXACTLY!] > >[CODY SAYS] By offering my mom a chance to strap me >at least once we can both satisfy our curiosities >about what the belt is like. Plus it would be a chance >to discover this without the experience being soured >at all by whatever trouble I got myself into hanging >over the event. A great thing about my spanking on >Sunday night was the complete absence of any kinda >hard feelings from either of us. [AGAIN, YOU ARE >THINKING ALONG THE SAME LINES AS ME. GETTING SPANKED >BY ONE’S PARENTS WHEN THEY ARE NOT UPSET AT ALL WITH >YOU IS VERY DIFFERENT THAN PUNISHMENT SPANKINGS. THIS >IS A KEY PART OF THE MAINTENANCE SPANKINGS I GIVE MY >TWO ON WEDNESDAY BEDTIMES AND SATURDAY MORNINGS. YES >THEY GET SOUND SPANKINGS AND THEY CRY HARD BOTH TIMES, >BUT THERE IS NOT A DROP OF ANGER ANWHERE—NOT ON MY >PART, NOT ON THEIRS. WHAT A DIFFERENCE THAT MAKES, AND >THEY KNOW AND ACCEPT THAT THESE SPANKINGS ARE INTENDED >TO KEEP THEM BOTH ON A “GOOD PATH”!] > >[CODY SAYS] So far this whole situation has worked out >very well and I love that my Mom is getting something >out of it as well. What did you think of my suggestion >in my earlier post about trying a quick sample of the >belt at the end of my next spanking? That I might just >do. THAT IS A TRICKY ONE, CODY. MUCH TRICKIER THAN >YOU’D THINK AT FIRST. > >DOESN’T THAT MEAN—JUST A QUICK SAMPLE—THAT YOU >ARE REALLY CALLING THE SHOT ON THAT? SHE GIVES YOU >THREE WHACKS, YOU YELL “OK, OK! THAT’S ENOUGH!” >IS THAT THE FAIR SAMPLE OF A STRAPPING YOU BOTH WANTED >TO SEE? OR EVEN IF YOU DID THAT AFTER 6 OR 7 WHACKS >AND YOU YELLED ENOUGH? ARE YOU, OR IS SHE “TRYING >IT OUT”? AND IF YOU LEAVE IT TO YOU TO MAKE THE >DECISION AFTER ONE OF HER REGULAR HARD SPANKINGS OF >YOU, CODY—WHEN YOU ARE BAWLING GOOD AND SO GLAD THAT >SPANKING IS OVER, WHEN YOU THOUGHT SHE’D NEVER STOP >SPANKING YOU? ARE YOU GOING TO THEN SAY, “OH, BY >THE WAY, HOW ABOUT TRYING OUT THAT STRAP?” NOT >GOING TO HAPPEN, CODY, NOT GOING TO HAPPEN THAT WAY. >MY SUGGESTION: JUST FLAT OUT TELL HER, “MOM, I >DON’T EVER PLAN TO DO ANYTHING SO BAD YOU WILL FEEL >I NEED TO GET A STRAPPING. SO, PLEASE, MOM, UNDERSTAND >HOW I FEEL ABOUT THAT. YOU HAVE BEEN SO TERRIFIC IN >THE WAY YOU HAVE HANDLED MY NEED FOR SPANKINGS THAT I >FEEL LIKE ANY TIME YOU FEEL YOU WOULD LIKE TO TRY >STRAPPING ME TO SEE WHAT THAT IS LIKE AND HOW I HANDLE >IT—THAT IS FINE WITH ME. TO BE HONEST I AM CURIOUS, >TOO, AND VERY SCARED ABOUT THAT, BUT YOU SHOLD KNOW >YOU CAN STRAP ME ANY TIME YOU FEEL YOU WANT TO. >PERIOD. > >THAT PUTS THE BALL COMPLETELY IN HER COURT BUT REALLY, >THAT IS WHERE IT SHOULD BE, ISN’T IT? YOU AND I >KNOW SHE WON’T ABUSE THAT PERMISSION, BUT SHE WILL >VERY PROBABLY USE IT—THE IDEA TANTALIZES HER. > >[CODY SAYS] I've considered maybe asking for my next >spanking this weekend but I'm not quite sure. It's >still a scary thing to ask for. >[YES, CODY! MY OPINION, DO THAT! IF YOU LET TOO LONG A >TIME GO IT GETS HARDER AND HARDER TO MAKE THE >REQUEST—THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON NOT TO—AND THE >LONGER THE WAIT THE MORE AGONIZING THINGS GET. IN MY >OPINION YOU SHOULD ASK HER ABOUT ONCE A WEEK—ONCE >EVERY 6 TO 9 DAYS AT THE LEAST—UNLESS, NOW ALWAYS A >POSSIBILITY, SHE DECIDES ON HER OWN TO SPANK YOU >WITHIN THAT SAME PERIOD. CODY, SHE WILL BE VERY GLAD >IF YOU ASK HER TONIGHT TO SPANK YOU THIS WEEKEND. > >[Cody says] Interesting to learn that you also grew up >with hand and hairbrush spankings and the occasional >strapping for graver offenses. Sounds awfully >familiar. Did both your parents spank? Was it mostly >your Dad? >BOTH PARENTS SPANKED ME. MOM WITH HAND AND HAIRBRUSH >WHEN I GOT HOME AFTER SCHOOL SOME DAYS. I ALSO >REMEMBER MOM MAKING ME SIT BESIDE HER WHILE SHE CALLED >DAD TO TELL HIM SHE WANTED HIM TO GIVE ME THE BELT >WHEN HE GOT HOME. THEN SHE’D PUT ME ON THE PHONE AND >DAD WOULD TELL ME HE WAS GOING TO ROAST MY BOTTOM WHEN >HE GOT HOME, AND THAT MADE ME SO AGITATED I’D >SOMETIMES PEE MYSELF A LITTLE SITTING THERE. > >[Cody asks] Did you ever get to spank as a babysitter >or anything like that? Or were your kids the first >kids you've ever spanked? MY KIDS WERE THE FIRST KIDS >I SPANKED. I STARTED SPANKING THEM WHEN THEY WERE >STILL TODDLER (2.5 TO 6 YEARS OLD). I STARTED GIVEN >THEM MAINTENANCE SPANKINGS WHEN THEY WERE BOTH IN >SCHOOL. > >What was it like giving your first spanking after >being on the receiving end of so many spankings? >I HAVE TO BE COMPLETELY HONEST. THE FIRST SPANKING I >GAVE ONE OF MY KIDS (WHO WAS ONLY ABOUT 2 AND A HALF), >WAS SO EXCITING FOR ME I FELT FAINT. AFTER A WHILE, >WHEN THEY WERE YOUNG, AND BOTH WERE GETTING SPANKED ON >THEIR BARE BOTTOMS, EACH SPANKING WAS ALWAYS A SPECIAL >THING FOR ME AFTER ALL THE SPANKINGS I GOT AS A KID. >BUT I WAS ALWAYS MORE MODERATE THAN MY PARENTS WERE >WITH ME, AND I STILL AM. > >[Cody says] I have never given a spanking before and >I'm certainly intrigued to hear what it's like being >on the other side of it for the first time? Must be >exciting! FOR ME, CODY, GIVING A SPANKING IS ALWAYS >EXCITING—EVERY SINGLE ONE IS EXCITING. > >When your kids are all grown up and no longer need >spankings, do you think you will miss no longer having >spankings to give? My mom seemed to be quietly missing >it and now's she's thrilled to be out of spanker's >retirement! MY GUESS WOULD BE YES—I WILL MISS GIVING >THEM. > >Hope that answered all your questions. Love, June

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