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>>In my street lives a family with 4 kids, 3 boys and a >>girl. The boys are 16, 14 and 10, the girl is 15 y/o. >>I've known them all their lives. >> >>I was at the park with my own son who is in diapers at >>night, with the neighbors 14 y/o playing basketball, >>when he stumbled right in front of me. His shorts >>sagged a bit by this action, making me aware that the >>kid was wearing pull-ups. I helped him stand up, he >>thanked me and went on playing. >> >>When we happened to walk home together, I asked him >>about his painful fall. He said it didn't hurt, but he >>was afraid his pull-ups were torn a bit. He said it so >>casually that I dared asking him if he had problems >>with peeing, because he was wearing these? Then he >>told me their mother has some sort of fear of stains, >>this made her decide not to buy the boys regular >>underwear, but she puts them in tape on diapers for >>the night, and pull-ups for the day. So they never >>wore briefs or boxer shorts, the 14 y/o told me. Of >>course, they have protested when they were younger and >>saw all other kids with common underwear, at least he >>and his older brother have, but their mom insisted and >>didn't buy them regular undies even though the girl is >>allowed to wear panties and helps out with the boys. >> >>The boy told me that he is used to them now, his >>family and friends have known about their protective >>undies for years, so he doesn't get teased by anyone. >>He admitted he actually likes the comfortable fit and >>safe feeling they give him, although he isn't a >>bedwetter. The kid admitted he has had some daytime >>accidents last year, when he was very busy online >>gaming. Only when he was getting ready for bed, he >>found out that he had peed in his pull-ups. He hadn't >>told his mom, he sneaked his pull-ups in the garbage >>can. >> >>His older brother still has nighttime accidents every >>once in a while, so he really needs nighttime >>protection, but he has been dry by day all his life. >> >>His sister has stayed dry since she was potty-trained >>as a toddler, his little brother has had nighttime >>accidents until he was 7, but is dry since then. >> >>I can understand that a mother makes her kids wear >>protection when they are prone to having wetting >>accidents, but this is the first time I hear that a >>mother never lets her children wear ordinary undies. >>My own kid wears diapers for bedwetting but he usually >>has regular undies during the daytime. I've been asked >>to babysit them this summer too so not sure how that >>will work. > >//// > >>Yes, i will expect that i will have to continue to >>keep them in diapers although i'm not sure why they >>need tape ons for bed and not pull ups like they wear >>during the day but i doubt thats going to change! It >>probably helps that my boy still needs protection for >>bed too although for different reasons > >Well, it sounds like you have the right attitude, >respecting their parents wishes. I'm sure you'll be >able to get a better understanding when you talk to >the parents. And I think it will be good for your son >to meet other kids who have a similar situation. The >neighbor kids sound like they have a good attitude >about the diapers and if your son stuggles to find >understanding friends, it sounds like the neighbors >know others who won't judge.

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