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>>Hi everyone my husband and I adopted a 7 year old boy >>( Michael) 5 months ago. He was abused by his >>biological parents for several years before he was >>taken away by cps. He has worn diapers all his life >>but we were assured he has been potty trained for two >>years now. He has pooped in his pants many times in >>the 5 months since we adopted him. We have paddled his >>bottom every single time he has done this. He does >>still wear goodnights to bed because he still wets the >>bed every night. My husband told him that if he wants >>to poop his pants like a baby does he will find >>himself in pampers like baby’s wear. He got bottom >>paddled last night by me after he filled his pants >>while we were out to dinner. My husband wants me to >>put him back in pampers full time until this behavior >>stops. I have yet to buy him pampers and my husband is >>telling me if I don’t buy them by the end of the >>weekend he is going to take Michael to the store with >>him and make Michael carry a case of pampers to the >>cashier to embarrass him and he will be spanked upon >>returning home and put in pampers immediately after he >>gets paddled. My husband keeps telling me that if he >>wants to poop his pants like a baby then he will be >>treated like a baby! We are at our wits end! What >>would you do in this frustrating situation? I would >>love to hear your advice and opinions please! > >No, no, no!! That poor little boy. You need to stop. >You said he was abused by his parents, that is >probably why he is still messing his pants. That boy >need to be loved, held, and loved some more. I’m not >saying diapers aren’t the right thing but your >approach is horrible. When he has an accident you need >to tell him it’s ok, for now anyway. Then lovingly >clean him up. My son is 8 and has some minor >disabilities but it has really made potty training >difficult. He too still wets the bd every single >night, we diaper him before bed and change him in the >morning, but we do it with love not hate. He also >still goes through some phases of day time accidents >so when he is having a spell he wears either diapers >or pull-ups during the day. He can’t help it. I >really hope you will change your approach with your >son. Explain that diapers aren’t for baby’s but >for anyone that has accidents. And that you will be >glad to help him with his till they clear up.

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