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>you should encourage your son to go. bed-wetting >shouldn't stop him from having fun with his friends. i >usually talk to the other mom and ask her to help my >daughter put on her pull-up discretely when the other >kids have fallen asleep. pro-tip: pack a comfy onesie >for you son, if he has one. less chance of a diaper or >pull-up peaking out from under the pjs. my daughter >has a pokemon one that she loves. no chance that >anyone notices anything under that one. > >>My son Max still wets the bed at 11. Now his best >>friend Lisa invited him to a sleepover for her >>birthday in two weeks. Lisa knows about the >>bed-wetting and is really nice about it, so does her >>mom. They already had a few sleepovers and it wasn't a >>problem. He put on his goodnites and that was that. >>But this time there will be other guests that don't >>know and my son is really scared that someone might >>find out. He also will be the only boy, that doesn't >>help. To make things worse, Lisa's mom told me Lisa >>got very upset and even cried a bit when she told her >>that Max might not want to stay for the sleepover. She >>doesn't understand what the big deal about Max wetting >>the bed is, bless her heart. So now May and I are >>torn. On one hand I think the sleepover will be a lot >>of fun and it will be good for him to meet more >>people. Also he obviously don't want to disappoint his >>friend. On the other hand I know how vicious girls at >>that age can be, and I really would hate for someone >>to notice his special underwear and make fun of him. >>He is already so self conscious about the bed-wetting >>and it took him two years to trust Lisa enough to open >>up about it, who had already figured it out shortly >>after they became friends, but didn't say anything >>until he was ready to talk about it. How do I deal >>with this?

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