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>>With your 14 year old, would you mind sharing details >>about his maintenance. You mentioned he gets the full >>deal which includes enemas. With a bulb? With a bag? >> Using a ballon nozzle? How? Do you also mean to >>ensure he uses his diaper, is he forced to poop in the >>diaper after given the enema? >> >> >> >> >Hi KD, sorry I took so long to get back to you! There >was a lot of stuff going on. > >So, about our oldest. Fridays after waking him up I >take off his diaper and make a note of whether it was >messy. When he gets home from school he has to put on >a diaper himself. After dinner we go up to his room >and have a deep talk about his week, about school and >everything. > >When I feel we’ve had a good talk, I’ll ask him to >undress and talk to me about his body. We’ll talk >about minor injuries or insecurities and such, to make >sure we as parents are up to date with everything and >nothing gets missed. I also ask him if he’s had a >bowel movement during the day, because sometimes >he’ll lie and say he has when he hasn’t. He >usually gets a little meek during that part. Then >I’ll have him make room on the bed and put down a >plastic sheet, then lie down on it. Regardless of what >he said about the bowel movement, he’ll get a quick >rectal exam to see if he’s backed up. If he is, >he’ll get hot soap water up his butt with a bulb, >and then the diaper again. I’ll have him hold it for >how long I take to wash the bulb and get back to him, >then he’s allowed to expel. If he does it sooner, >he’ll get a second bulb and a plug. If I’m >satisfied with the result, I’ll change him and >prepare the bag with warm salt water. Otherwise he >gets another exam and possibly a second bulb to clean >him out. > >For the enema I usually start him on all fours and >have him roll around during the flow in. We use a long >double balloon tube, which only works if he’s >cleared out beforehand. This is usually when he starts >begging to be allowed to touch himself because the >long tube and the slow salt water enema make him very >hard. When he’s been good, he is allowed to lie on a >new diaper and may touch himself. But I put more water >into the bag until he‘s cum or starts crying, so >sometimes he regrets having asked. Last friday he got >to enjoy himself and had a good wank in his diaper >during the enema, as a reward for offering to help >clean the garage and then actually helping without >making a fuss. But this friday I already know he’ll >get catheterized as soon as he’s started with the >soap water, no touching this time! When he’s limp >again, which inevitably happens when he gets fuller, >regardless of whether he’s cum or not, he gets a >plug and has to hold the enema. That’s usually when >the crying starts for real. > >We cuddle and soothe him during holding time, then >after we think he’s had enough, we bring him to the >bathroom across the hall, which he hates because of >course his siblings watch him walk. Usually he’ll >beg to be diapered, but this friday he’ll definitely >go naked, plug and catheter and all. >We sit with him during expelling and talk him through >it, it’s often very cathartic for him. Afterwards he >gets cleaned and plugged again and tucked in bed with >a pacifier. > >During the weekend he‘s fully diapered. The plug >comes out at changing time and he gets an exam and a >soapy bulb again if he’s backed up or doesn’t want >to use the diaper. Same for his catheter, sometimes he >gets it friday already, sometimes he’s good and uses >his diaper and it stays out. But usually saturday I >notice he‘s holding it in so we force him to >actually use the diaper.

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