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>>"Layer cake" is the name the old "spanking with love" >>parenting site used to call the method of drawing out >>a spanking for a long time, by giving a round of >>spanks, then taking a break, and starting up the >>spanking again. >> >>https://web.archive.org/web/20091107072932/http://chas >t >>isewithlove.com/techniques.html >> >>Can just lecture the child in the break, put them in a >>corner or have them kneeling for a while. >>Or if spanking more than one child, alternate between >>them. >> >>My wife is expert in spanking soft but very long this >>way. >> >>If my kids did something they know we are going to >>find out, they rather come to me to confess and get >>punishment over with quick, than risk that. > > >Hello Mike >Thank you for this link, I was not aware that this >type of spanking is at least 30 years old. >I guess that was also the reason why my own mother >sometimes beat me 2-3 times in 1 hour. >Especially as I was slowly entering puberty and in the >2nd round she undressed me further to use either a >martinet or a narrow leather paddle. >My brother, who was 2 years older, only received the >leather paddle or belt from my father and only one >round with his pants down. >This also only happened once every 1-2 months. >During the same period I was made very sad at least 10 >times. >The type of beating we received was as different as it >could be. >I was always afraid when someone called me or came >into my room, which is why I wore diapers until I was >8 and even after that I would sometimes wet myself out >of fear. >This earned me extra rounds every time.. >So when someone stands up and says girls don't piss >themselves if you take them to the toilet first, I can >only laugh. >Then I know that most of them have never spanked a >girl and only live in their fetish world. >Spanking hurts and everry child is fear on it. >This circumstance alone is the best way to teach a >child that it has to wear diapers without any ifs and >buts. > >When my brother turned 12, his punishment changed from >a beating to house arrest, he was not allowed to play >football with friends, have sleepovers or go to >friends to play PC games for a short period of time. >From then on he only got house arrest, usually for 1 >week but very rarely did he serve more than 2 days. >But unlike me, his spanking time was definitely over, >so I waited hopefully for my 12th birthday. > >When my eleventh birthday came, my mother opened the >door that morning like she did on every previous >birthday. >I immediately saw the martinet and leather paddle in >her hand, and I knew immediately that I would start my >birthday with a spanking again. She kissed me, hugged >me and congratulated me on my birthday. >Then she held my chin with her hand and forced me to >look at her as she said, from today on you will get >big girl spankings until you are 18, are you ready? >I started to cry when I saw the spanking implements in >her hand and while she was talking I wet my pajamas >and bed. >When she took off my pajamas, she was scolding and >threatening to put diapers on me again, but that never >happened again after my 9th birthday. >From that day on, my 11th birthday, I was always >completely undressed before she spank. > >In any case, I now know that I happen to be on the >right path in raising my daughters. >But they are definitely too young for more than 2 >rounds and even too young for a martinet or a narrow >leather paddle. >A spanking with a stick, wooden paddle or hairbrush is >definitely out of the question for me. >Even if they are over 16 years old. >I don't want them to get blisters on their bottoms or >legs, or even worse, burst them. >When I feel it is time for a beating, I want they to >be available, and not be out for one or two weeks, >because their mother was cruel and brutal. >But I have more reasons too, why I don't want the >spanking to end too quickly. >I think Mike, you know it and you can find it by your >wife's reasons. >I like the way you raise your children. > >Thank you again Mike >best wishes >Natascha

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