Re: How do I get started? -- Diaper and punishment for children and teens

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Date Posted: 17:30:07 07/13/25 Sun
Author: Jeff
Subject: Re: How do I get started?
In reply to: LionTamer 's message, "Re: How do I get started?" on 08:41:30 07/13/25 Sun

>Thank you for the advice, what is a warmup?
>They will kick up an absolute storm when it first
>happens.
>It will be a shock but I'm at my limit.
>
>
>
>>3 weeks isn’t very long for diapers, child training
>>and first time obedience.
>>
>>For 3 weeks I would recommend spanking for every
>>infraction, big or small. Maybe mix in some
>>maintenance or warmups too.

You mentioned the boys' mother rejects every idea you suggest. Does she have the same issues with the boys you do or do they behave better for her? Just not sure why she doesnt seem to be frustrated like you are.
And is she willing to accept discipline ideas if the father suggests them?
I would suggest talking with your husband and stating you feel they need more discipline while under your roof. Explain how frustrated you are with the current situation.
Perhpas you could get him to agree that they will be subject to your rules when they are staying with you. You might not be able to have any ongoing maintenence discipline or a fixed routing unless their mother agrees to keep it going at her house. So what if you just spanked or used diapers on a short term basis, whenever you felt their behavior deserved it? Maybe that will be enough to get them motivated to improve.

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Re: How do I get started? -- LionTamer, 03:39:15 07/14/25 Mon
- Re: How do I get started? -- Jeff, 14:40:03 07/14/25 Mon
  - Re: How do I get started? -- LionTamer, 04:46:15 07/15/25 Tue
    - Re: How do I get started? -- didi, 22:40:42 07/17/25 Thu
      - Re: How do I get started? -- LionTamer, 11:39:10 07/20/25 Sun
        Re: How do I get started? -- DiDithepirate, 11:14:20 07/31/25 Thu
        Re: How do I get started? -- Barabra, 02:21:00 08/13/25 Wed
        Re: How do I get started? -- DiDithepirate, 03:52:54 08/13/25 Wed
        Re: How do I get started? -- Barabra, 04:26:40 08/13/25 Wed
        Re: How do I get started? -- Anne01, 07:56:06 08/13/25 Wed
        Re: How do I get started? -- Tanja_mom, 12:33:50 08/14/25 Thu
        Re: How do I get started? -- Anne01, 05:02:13 08/15/25 Fri