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Date Posted: 11:46:41 07/23/25 Wed
Author: Maya
Subject: Re: How do I get started?
In reply to: LionTamer 's message, "Re: How do I get started?" on 11:35:28 07/20/25 Sun

There are also other ways to regress them a bit without going too far too soon.

If you have to spank during the day.
You can give them a bath and early bed time after dinner as well.
Tell you need to be there to check the damage on their bum, and help to speed things up and make sure they go to bed without delay.

Baby oil massages can also be used in a comforting way before bed for bonding.
Or in a wicked way. Spankings hurt way more if oil is applied before.


>Thank you, I will start doing this on their next
>visit. Unfortunately the last time they were here I
>lost my temper and shouted, it did very little to help
>the situation long term.
>So you think the older one should be spanked first?
>
>I'm not sure how much privacy is too much, I think
>it's a pretty standard set up, obviously the 7 year
>old is supervised in the bathtub.
>
>>Get your husband on board with this, start with the
>>older boy to set an example. At the first sign of
>>disobedience or behaviour you don't like punish it.
>>The first time you spank it will shock him but he will
>>learn.
>>
>>You say you have 3 weeks, you will want to do this as
>>much as possible early on and ease off as he gets
>>nearer to going his mom. How much custody do you have,
>>are we talking only weekends, because this type of
>>behaviour modification isn't suited for short term
>>care.
>>
>>Are you giving them too much privacy?

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