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Date Posted: 11:35:28 07/20/25 Sun
Author: LionTamer
Subject: Re: How do I get started?
In reply to: Marc DeGuzman 's message, "Re: How do I get started?" on 12:08:32 07/17/25 Thu

Thank you, I will start doing this on their next visit. Unfortunately the last time they were here I lost my temper and shouted, it did very little to help the situation long term.
So you think the older one should be spanked first?

I'm not sure how much privacy is too much, I think it's a pretty standard set up, obviously the 7 year old is supervised in the bathtub.

>Get your husband on board with this, start with the
>older boy to set an example. At the first sign of
>disobedience or behaviour you don't like punish it.
>The first time you spank it will shock him but he will
>learn.
>
>You say you have 3 weeks, you will want to do this as
>much as possible early on and ease off as he gets
>nearer to going his mom. How much custody do you have,
>are we talking only weekends, because this type of
>behaviour modification isn't suited for short term
>care.
>
>Are you giving them too much privacy?

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