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Date Posted: 21:56:00 06/26/08 Thu
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Post 217 A: Hoof Hearted
"And they're going around the outside turn and it's Hoof Hearted in the lead..." (sniff!)! My Salute to George Carlin.
Someone mentioned to me something about a week ago. It had something to do with "swinging." It was about people in my home town. I got the impression this person had the impression we were into that. Well, I asked my other half, after she cheated on me, if she wanted an open marriage. She said "no."
I told her that by doing that to me she gave me the eternal right to do the same thing to her. A friend named Debbie from Tanglewood, 'Tanglewood Tales', once told me "when a woman cheats it's "'YEA, I cheated!'" when a man cheats it's "oh no, I cheated."
When a woman cheats it seems to me other women are quite easy on her. It seems that women seem to be pissed-off at men in general. It's as if they're saying "Damned man, he probably deserved what he got."
Other men are EXTREMELY easy on a woman who cheats. Thats probably because they want to hurry up an get in line to be the next one to screw her. But, they are very hard on a man who cheats. That's because, it seems to me, they are secretly worried that their wife or girlfriend will be the next he goes after.
Anyway, the justice system is not the least bit fair to men, or so it seems to me. It seems to me women accept no responsibility in this world, now days anyway.
In the time of Christ a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery, even if being raped, was brought before her husband for judgement. He, being the half of the bond that had not sinned, would have to cast the first stone. Such as if a Princess and heir whose family controled the northern half, known as Isreal, and a Prince and Master Mason or Perrieur/Neferkheperure, and heir whose family controled the southern half, known as Judaea were to marry. Something the Romans did not want and tried to break up even to the point of raping his wife in front of the Jewish Sanhedrin. And then draging her in front of her husband for judgement. 'He that is without sin amoung you, let him first cast a stone at her.' - ST. John 8:7
They could not, because it was her husband, Jesus', responsibility.
What did Jesus mean in ST. Matthew 5:28, Post 216 A:? 'But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.'
What Jesus meant was, do not judge your brother for something you yourself are guilty of.
Most of Jesus' ministry was about forgiveness and non-judgement. Particularly in defense of his wife, Mary Magdalene. It took Paul, Saul of Tarsus, to twist the message and create punishment and discipline. I have always equated Paul to a Davis Korish type. Someone who took over an already established religion and twist it to meet his own end and purposes. I get this image of Cheech and Chong's "Buggery On The High Seas." And I think that would fit Paul.
Forgiving my spouse for her infidelity has been the most difficult thing I have ever had to do in my life, thus far. It would have been much easier to have walked out, a.k.a. "cut and run." I can forgive, however, so far, I can't forget.
Anyway, about "swinging". I know some people who were into that. Who they are, if they wanted you to know they whould tell you. I don't know what my spouse was doing when she was cheating on me. I hope it wasn't that. But, I have never been asked to join. Not that I would.
If there's a dance, it's nice to be asked, even if you're not going.
Maybe they're scared? I'm only 5'7". I'm not as tall as most guys, but then I'm not as short as most guys.
Well, that's all I have for now. I have to go water my garden. You see, I'm a grower, not a show-er.
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