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Samantha
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Date Posted: 07:39:25 06/11/02 Tue
In reply to:
Samantha
's message, "Re: sh*t sh*t sh*t...." on 20:41:20 06/10/02 Mon
Alright, I have more time now... *huge hugs for kalie* That's gotta be scary. I can't say I know what you're going through, because I refuse to have children, heh, but I can definatly say I'm by your side. But you've got to talk to someone. There's lots of counseling you can get, not because you've got something wrong mentally, but because it feel so good to talk to someone. And therapists and counselors and stuff know just the right things to tell you that will make you feel tons better than we at JBTH can. But talk to someone. Your parents love you, and they might be mad, but they'll still love you. Or if you absolutely cannot talk to them [I know how hard it is to tell your parents that something's wrong] talk to a friend's parent or something. My best friend's mom knows more about me than my own parents, because I'm always needing help. Just take everything one step at a time, and be very calm. If you decide to have this baby, while it will make your life a ton harder, it might be worth it. But if I were in your shoes, I'd get an abortion, but you might not like that idea. Some people think it's murder, but in my mind, it's better than the child growing up in a bad environment where life would be hard. Of course, you could always have the baby and give it up for adoption. There's lots of choices. You just need to talk and ask questions and find out what's right for you. And don't worry about the people at JBTH. If anyone judges you for this, it's only because they aren't in your shoes. They can't comprehend the thought of being pregnant. But you've still got a bunch of us that are right there with you, hoping things turn out all right.
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