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Subject: need help... any thoughts? Author: Amy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Wednesday, January 14, 10:13:13am Dad just left for Mass... his soon to be wife has a birthday this week. Before he left he dropped a bombshell on me. He wants to sell the haouse and have me move to a trailer park... this is pretty upsetting on its own since he said this place was for us kids... and he says unless i move where they live i have to move out of the house. Then he asked why i dont buy this place... he wants a lot for it... it is across from a golf course... i get $581 a month... so there is no way any bank would give me a loan... (and lets not forget the $60,000 in college loans i have)... so he knows, as do i, there is no way a bank would give me any money. Anyone know of any programs i could look into? I understand they are going to live 400 miles away and dad doesn't want to come back for something going on here but i really want to stay where i am... its windy and cold but it is maine and i dont want to move... but i am sure i will be out soon... if anyone has an idea for a program or any thoughts at all i would love to hear them... Dad says he will think about it this week with his so to be wife... they want to buy a $200,000 house... this one dad said would take $40,000 to fix... i dont think so... it does need work but it is nothing i cant do over time... just thinking there is probably no program the government has i could do... maybe there is... Dad is not a bad man and i think he is wanting to give up the past... i cant blame him... he has really no reason to help me... he is not my bio-dad... and the "x" mom was so very bad to him - i am sure seeing me doesn't help him forget about her... Please dont think i am mad or hate him...i dont! I am grateful... extremely... i am just lost... the depression is not helping... cant stop crying... meds are harsh... pain is high... i kinda feel like i did when mom kicked me out all those years ago... dad doesn't understand i have real trust issues... i have been tossed away before... he said he never would kick me out but it is happening... i know something i am too old to live at home... i know i am... i just hoped dad would keep this promise... Hard when someone you love comes in and says you are moving out and being tossed into another place... i just wish my parents would stop making promises they dont keep... i hold faith and love and i hate feeling abandoned... i know this is silly... just been so long to not have trust with anyone and i finally trust again and it happens all over again... Sorry all... i know i should not feel this way and just grow up... i was just hoping the promises were true... sorry!!! I guess i sound bad and ungrateful... i am grateful! Just sad, scared, and alone... i wish things had never happend... Sorry... just need some thoughts... [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date Re: need help... any thoughts? Alison Friday, January 16, 03:29:47pm Re: need help... any thoughts? -- Tess, Sunday, February 08, 04:18:18pm