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Date Posted: 19:23:04 12/14/04 Tue
Author: bj
Subject: Re: Regarding Praise
In reply to: Chris 's message, "Re: Regarding Praise" on 03:52:52 12/10/04 Fri

1) about praising each other--> both become happy;
Your argument is possible, but i can't find it definitely.
So more observations can be needed, I think.

2) The issue that she likes being called Mother Barry;
In my center, nearly everbody don't call her Mother B.
Only they call her SB.
But John Jun calls her Mother Barry sometimes.
So, this issue should be obeserved more.



>By the way, I observed another pattern of praise in
>UBF. Because they want to look more humble, they don't
>praise themselves, they praise the others and let
>themselves be praised. For instance, Sarah Barry would
>praise Samuel Lee. Samuel Lee, in turn, arranged
>bithday banquets for her where she was praised. He
>also made people call her "Mother Barry" or "Reverend
>Barry." So both were happy because they got the praise
>they wanted. You can see this pattern everywhere in
>UBF. That is also one reason why UBF likes to
>celebrate anniversaries of a chapter. At such
>anniversaries, our chapter leader praised his wife as
>if she and her prayer was responsible for everything,
>in turn she praised him for his leadership and both
>were happy. In fact, at the latest of these
>anniversaries, the chapter leader let everybody write
>a praise about another long-time member. And everybody
>was happy.
>
>Back to Sarah Barry. Joe is right. If she is so humble
>about herself, why does she allow others to call her
>"Mother Barry"? If she would only say one word and
>call it unbiblical, UBFins would obey her and not call
>her Mother any more. But the truth is she likes it and
>does not stop it. I have seen photos of Ms. Barry
>where she is wearing a nameplate that calls her
>"Mother Barry." That's why Joe called her a hypocrite
>and he is right, very obviously. It is so amazing how
>UBFins can be blind for such obvious things. They are
>just like the people in "The Emperor's New Clothes."

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