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Subject: Re: Teen withholds her stools Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Saturday, December 14, 2024, 06:34: pm In reply to: Shelly 's message, "Re: Teen withholds her stools" on Saturday, December 14, 2024, 05:49: pm Joyce, How do you feel about the need to see what she produces? I know that was very important to the nurses. But I also know from my own experience growing up and what Kitten Paw says that it is something that really is humiliating to the child. I'm trying to weigh what possible knowledge I will gain about what is going on in her colon with how degrading it is for her to show me her poop. My most important goal is to empty her entire colon and if I make her let me see what the third enema which is going to be two quarts brings out if she is able to take it all and hold it for like ten minutes then I'll know if she is cleaned out. You have many years of experience with your daughter, should I be noting what she is producing? What does what I see in the toilet tell me? I will heed your opinion on this one. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Teen withholds her stools Author: Joyce [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, December 15, 2024, 02:23: am Shelly, Having sitter use the knee-chest like position using the pillow as you suggest with you kneeling on the floor on her left side will give you essentially the same access to her anus and rectum as having her on your lap, possibly better. It will also allow the enemas to flow more easily into her because there will be less pressure on her belly. I suggest you discuss this with her to let her know you value her opinion and let her choose which way she prefers. As to examining the toilet after she expels each enema, I again suggest you seek her opinion rather than forcing her to let you look. You might just discover that she isn't sensitive as you believe. Again letting her know that you value her opinion will only serve to enhance her trust. There are several things we may discover from examining the toilet after she expells, including: 1 - blood in the stool - this is a "red flag" that requires medical attention 2 - how well the soap breaks up solid stool 3 - signs of diverticulitis I'm sure there are other things I can't think of now. If she is opposed to your checking, try to get her to agree to just checking after the second rinse. - Joyce [ Post a Reply to This Message ]