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Subject: Re: teen withholder Author: Andrea [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Monday, December 16, 2024, 02:04: pm In reply to: Shelly 's message, "teen withholder" on Sunday, December 15, 2024, 01:12: pm Hi Shelly, It breaks my heart what this young lady is going through. My daughter is 10 and she went through much of what your sitter is now going through. Now that you have at least got her bowels to empty every three days that is giving her colon a chance. Do you see any behaviors or signals that you think she still fights contractions in her bottom to evacuate? Sneak a look at her underwear when you have her over and see if the light brown stains are in her underwear that will be there even after going through the wash. Holders will smear their underwear quite often trying to hold it in. You had to give her a suppository to get a bowel movement because she hasn't had one since her last enemas. They usually take 10 to 15 minutes to give them contractions. Any sign she was holding back against the suppository trying to make her go and needed prompting from you to go sit and get a poop for you? She may be eating ferociously now. Her mom said as much. You got a large stool out of her rectum and then there was still a large enough stool in her sigmoid bend that you couldn't get the enema in her at first so her colon is delivering a lot of stool towards the rectum. I think the enemas twice a week are better than nothing. My girl has been getting a warm water enema from an 8 oz. bulb syringe every night and will for many months. It has been life changing for the whole family and she will ask for her enema if I take to long in the evening to give it to her. Obviously that is out of the question with her refusing to let mom treat her with causing a huge rift in their relationship. So she didn't complain or try to resist her suppository or even the fourth enema that she thought she wouldn't have to have? If she is giving you 100% cooperation she wants these enemas! She feels good and has an appetite. If she is still an active holder she doesn't have to worry about smearing her underwear and that will really lift her spirits. She will come to look forward to enema day. She's not going to tell because like you were growing up and like Kitten Paw says, they are still degrading and humiliating but they are given by a caring loving 'mom' figure and that means all the world to them. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: teen withholder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 16, 2024, 04:42: pm Andrea, I did check her underwear while I had her on the toilet both last Wednesday and yesterday. I pretended like I was just folding her clothes and putting them together but I made sure she saw that I was looking in her panties on Sunday because Wednesday the tell tale light brown streaking was pretty prominent in her panties. Sunday same thing. If she had any underwear that was super clean and no stains I'm pretty sure she would have wore them Sunday. I didn't say anything but she now knows that I know that she smears her underwear. At least she has sometime during the lifetime of those panties. No she doesn't exhibit any of the tell tale signs of withholding like a 4 year old would. She has gotten real good at masking by now. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: teen withholder Author: Andrea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 16, 2024, 06:49: pm Well it sounded originally when she opened up to you about her constipation and mom making her do a Fleet enema like it was only once in a while that mom made her do a Fleet. So what she was doing was going typically four or five days or maybe even six and then having four or five good sized bowel movements the same day. When I was pregnant with my daughter I would get backed up and not have a bowel movement for four days and then I would have four bowel movements in like four of five hours. It wasn't loose stools or diarrhea, it was just four large stools one after the other. So that is what she is doing. She is having several stools in just a couple of hours or so. Her colon gets angry with her and just when your colon gives you warning that you are going to have some loose stools or diarrhea in a few minutes, her colon lets her know that she is going to think she took a stimulant laxative because she is going to empty in a few minutes. Like it or not. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]