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Subject: babysitter/stool withholder has graduated Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Tuesday, March 25, 2025, 09:02: am Av, Huge news! We had a long talk about going forward and taking some responsibility for her stooling habits. I asked her if she would like to make all enemas stop. Of course she does. I told her it could be a little scary at first but I know she can do it. I've got her on a large glass of metamucil morning and night. We increased from much smaller dose for a week but now she is drinking one large glass morning and night and she is now having usually two bowel movements a day. These means she is pooping at school also. We haven't had any missteps. But I told her any streaks in her underwear is an automatic soapsuds enemas. She is stressing a little but she is doing great. Am so proud of her. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: babysitter/stool withholder has graduated Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, March 25, 2025, 06:56: pm Shelly, Very good. That is a huge improvement. How are the enemas going for Junior since you moved it to monday and sitter is giving him his enemas again? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: babysitter/stool withholder has graduated Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, March 25, 2025, 08:41: pm AV, He is just over the moon. She told me he is asking her why he doesn't have to have the soapy enema and then a rinse enema like she does. She said she told him the soapy enemas hurt her and she doesn't like them and she wouldn't want to make him cry if a soapy enema really was painful for him. He agreed and was satisfied. But he wants his enema as soon as she walks in the door Mondays. So she tells him he has to give a poop first so his bottom is empty for the nozzle and so then it is on! He will go in and sit and sit. Try and try. After she figures he has sat long enough and he probably isn't going to be able to get a poop out at least for now she makes him give up and wait until after dinner and after his bath. Then they get his rectum emptied and she gives him his enema and then off to bed and he is happy. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: babysitter/stool withholder has graduated Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Tuesday, March 25, 2025, 09:08: pm Shelly WOW!! I am over the moon as well! Kudos!! The boys asking for their enemas instead of resisting. That alone is a huge accomplishment. 👍 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: babysitter/stool withholder has graduated Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Thursday, March 27, 2025, 12:26: am AV, well it happened. Actually I am surprised she has done so well up to now. I knew she was going to be upset the metamucil was going to make her poop at school because she is having two poops a day now with the twice daily metamucil I make her drink. With all of the enemas and me being in the bathroom with her on the toilet either emptying her bladder or rectum for an enema or just giving me her daily bowel movement I just feel she has been doing good getting desensitized to being on the toilet in front of someone. And teachers and staff she encounters are all on board and give her carte blanc to head to a toilet with just a raised eye brow at them, no permission needed. She has privileges to the toilet at the nurses office. I ration her panties to her so she can't smuggle a clean pair in her pocket. Well she came home this evening a little later than usual and she was acting a little strange. She was talking to our youngest about his bath and giving her a poop so he is ready for his enema and all the while trying to avoid me. I just knew. So I just said point blank, "are we going to have to do a soapsuds enema tonight". She wouldn't make eye contact with me but she gave an affirmative small nod. She barely made a mark in her panties but a mark means enemas and she knows it. So she got to bed late. She had to bathe and give our youngest his enema and then she had to have her soapsuds enema and then an even larger rinse enema. She had one of those mini panic attacks I haven't seen in a long time as she was emptying her bladder on the toilet watching me get her enema ready but we got through it and she is in bed now. I did not reprimand her at all. Frankly I wasn't sure if she was going to be able to have her bowel movements at school at all without a lot of accidents so I still feel she is on the way to winning this war she has going with herself about letting poop happen. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: babysitter/stool withholder has graduated Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Thursday, March 27, 2025, 07:58: am I don't think that was fair. She just had a little spot in her underwear. She is trying. She is having two bowel movements a day and this is a girl that is afraid of her own bowel movements. She should not have gotten the enemas last night. I call fowl. Give her a break. She is trying. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: babysitter/stool withholder has graduated Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, March 28, 2025, 01:57: am Shelly, All sounds good. So proud of the progress. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: babysitter/stool withholder has graduated Author: Andrea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Thursday, March 27, 2025, 03:18: pm No, a smear is a smear, doesn't matter the size. She was trying to hold the bowel movement in. If it was just a matter of not wiping good she would have told Shelly she just didn't wipe good. But she withheld. We don't know if she held for several minutes or several different times over the course of a couple of hours. She smears, she gets cleaned out. There are no freebies. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: babysitter/stool withholder has graduated Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, March 28, 2025, 01:47: am Andrea and Kitten Paw, Yes this was not a case of just not wiping. She had held back against the contractions until it forced it's way out and she is finally trying to rush to a toilet feeling stool between her cheeks. And she didn't make it in time. That is active withholding and she was told that is and automatic soapsuds and then rinse enema. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]