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Subject: Re: SUSAN.


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Susan
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Date Posted: Tuesday, May 06, 2025, 09:57: am
In reply to: AV 's message, "SUSAN." on Friday, May 02, 2025, 08:09: pm

Yeah I know right? I was so proud of myself that I could go without having to have a suppository. Like Kitten Paw says, it's like time travel to a toddler being so proud that she pooped in her potty.

It's like I'm locked in a toddler stage of growth where I never got comfortable using my potty. It is an awful existence. To be afraid of your own bowel movements into adult hood.

And there is little help for children that hold much less us adults that hold. It is figured that we will just out grow it and wise up at some point and use the toilet instead of our pants. It's not that simple.

I was in denial that I had a problem. That it is not okay to be afraid of my own bowel movements, to be disgusted by them, to wish I never ever had to have another bowel movement.

I want so badly for our two children to not have to grow up feeling the same way and holding in their poop. And I want to recover from it too. I want that so much.

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Date Posted: Tuesday, May 06, 2025, 10:20: am

Susan,
You are doing good.
Have you tried sits?
Go and just sit on the toilet to train your body.
That is what I did to help me.
I went and relaxed, took deep breaths, and allowed
my body to go if it needed to.
Now, around 7am, I have to make my way to a bathroom because my body thinks that is poop time.

How are the kids doing with the afternoon enema with dad?
Daughter doing better?
Son go on his own or had to have an enema by dad?

Continue to take care.

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