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Subject: Re: sleeping with ghosts

Author:
Lori

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Date Posted: 08/ 5/06 10:10pm
In reply to: Nikki 's message, "sleeping with ghosts" on 08/ 4/06 7:44pm

Hi Nikki,

It definitely sounds like your emotions are getting the best of you right now. I think a lot of the emotions that your feeling right now are due to being pregnant. I can remember crying for no reason at all while I was pregnant. You have so many different emotions, you feel the responsibility of this little one and it can feel overwhelming at times but know that everything will be okay. Were here to support you any time you need it that is what were here for.
I look forward to hearing from you soon.

God Bless,
Lori
((HUGS))

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[> Subject: Re: sleeping with ghosts

Author:
Pat
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Date Posted: 08/ 5/06 10:49pm

Nikki,

Bless your heart! I am very concerned you think you are a horrible person. Pushing your baby's father away won't help. That will hurt him more. He has accepted the situation, and yes, he can be happy with you. He can choose to be happy.

You may be suffering from some kind of clinical depression. If so, please get help! You should check your diet. If you are eating either monosodium glutimate or hydrolized vegetable protein, stop eating them (the name of a vegetable may be substituted for the word "vegetable"). These things are very dangerous for your baby. And they can do horrible things to your own mind. Make sure you are taking your vitamins.

Remember, you are made in the image of God, and He paid an infinite price for you because He loves you so much. If He thinks you are worth salvaging, then take His word for it.

Remember one other thing: You are a good mother, so you can't possibly be as horrible as you are thinking you are. You are protecting your baby. Your boyfriend is still with you because he loves you and wants to be with you. Here's another person who thinks the world of you, or he wouldn't be there for you. Let him nurture you.

We love you and care about you. I am glad you trust us enough to tell us when you are feeling this way. We will be praying for you.

Hugs,
Pat