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Re: unplanned pregnancy,hes not my BF,he is Pressuring me to abort!

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Melanie

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Date Posted: 01/20/10 1:35pm
In reply to: Jaycee 's message, "unplanned pregnancy,hes not my BF,he is Pressuring me to abort!" on 01/14/10 10:58pm

Hi Jaycee, I can't add too much to what the others have said except that I now have a 5-1/2 mo. old granddaughter who is the joy of my life, her grandpa's life, and my daughter's life. The situation with the baby's dad is similar. She is applying for child support now, but he has not seen her nor inquired about her. He is mostly trying to duck responsibility at this point.

To be honest, right now I wish she could just do without his help at all because he is out of the picture and it's probably a lot less complicated that way. I can't help but feel sad for him, though. He's really missing out.

You have a lot of time to plan and think things through with or without the baby's father. I have found, though, that a lot of times it is just a manipulative threat. Otherwise, I really don't know how someone can just ignore their own child. It definitely boggles my mind.

Go with your heart. It's unlikely that he will be there to pick up the pieces if you go against all you believe for his benefit if he can't be there for you when you have your baby.

That's my two cents. If I can do anything to help, let me know.

P.S. I haven't been on these boards much lately, but feel free to e-mail me also.

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