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Subject: Re: I just found out and I dont know for how long I was....

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Sharon

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Date Posted: 05/21/10 1:11pm
In reply to: Sam 's message, "I just found out and I dont know for how long I was...." on 05/16/10 6:46pm

Hi, Sam.

I'm sure this seems like the absolute worst thing that could be happening right now, but I was in a similar situation 30 years ago. I was in college and found myself unexpectedly pregnant. I didn't know what to do and felt like the whole world was falling in on me. I even made an appointment to have an abortion. But, I ended up cancelling it...and I'm so glad I did. Because I cancelled that appointment, I now have a beautiful, loving, funny, amazing, incredible son (He was a National Merit Scholar!) AND, HE now has a little boy. So, I have two lives in my life that would have been lost if I'd succumbed to the fear that was inside me.

So, I encourage you to take a deep breath. Sometimes things that seem terrible at the time can turn out to be the most incredible blessings. Far from "ruining" your life or your baby's life, you are actually being faced with an opportunity to enjoy a new life that you can't even completely imagine now.

Sharon

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