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Subject: Re: Please Help Me I Need Advice

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Pat

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Date Posted: 04/ 8/09 9:13pm
In reply to: Jen 's message, "Please Help Me I Need Advice" on 04/ 8/09 10:02am

Jen,

First of all, there are ALL KINDS of places that will help you in South Africa!

Go here and use "South Africa" from the dropdown list:

www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp

This man is an abuser. He has no business holding a lie against you, especially considering what he has done to you. I think it's just an excuse, personally.

Find a center near you and let them know you need shelter and basic necessities. They should be able to help you. Let us know what you find out.

I sure wouldn't go back to Portugal with this poor excuse, either. The fact is, if he has smacked you, he could resort to violence in the future. Don't take a chance! Most likely, he wasn't in love with you in the first place. He just wanted your body. As for making it work, it isn't.

If there is any way you can go live in the other flat, please do!

Please keep us informed. Come and talk whenever you need to. We will keep you in our prayers. There IS a solution. Get away from this man, so you can find it.

Hugs,
Pat

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