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Subject: abortion


Author:
Rachel (confussed)
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Date Posted: 04/ 8/09 12:20pm

I'm 16, in january i starting having sex with my boyfriend, weve known each other ages and i know i had got into the relationship to quick but it felt right, 6 weeks later, i missed a period and i decided to have a test, i found out i was pregent and didnt know what to do. my friend who i told had one before and told me everything was gunnah be ok, i told him and he was supportive but i didnt want him there or to help me in anyway and i dont know why, i had the surgical abortion i was only 8 weeks and could of had the pill, but i decided to go for the surgical as it would be one day and it would be over thats what i thought anyways, leading up to the abortion i had been really ill, couldnt eat, just slept. I got so worried and just wanted my life back, after the abortion I think it took it more out on me emotionally, id never expected I would have an abortion and really it was me and my boyfriend not been careful. I dont regret what i done because at the time it was the best thing for me, i just wish i didnt have to go through it. After my abortion 10 days after i had sex again, my sex drive was crazy and all thought about was it, when i did i bleed everywhere, i hurt the next day then i was ok, a week after and i feel asif its swollen, im going up fora checkup in the next couple of days, im quite scared but ive researched it and found that it will be a course of antibiotics to get sort myself out. I'm hoping everything is ok, because i do want kids, just not know, i would never have an abortion again, never dream of it. its the worst thing ive done and will never forget about it.

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Author:
Pat
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Date Posted: 04/ 8/09 9:20pm

Rachel,

I am so sorry.

Don't worry about not having the pill. You were too far along.

Take care of yourself and get well! Don't put yourself at risk anymore. Have a long talk with your boyfriend, and tell him that he owes it to you to protect you, and that you deserve better. Because you do.

It sounds like you were injured, to be honest. It is really important to get to the doctor right away, especially if you want to be able to have kids someday.

We will be here to talk to you, because you have a lot on your plate to deal with. You have emotions to heal, a body to heal, and spiritual issues, I'm sure. You can find a group in your area that will help you find someone who can work with you. Emotional and spiritual healing ARE possible. Go here:

pregnancycenters.org

Please keep in touch, and let us know how you are doing. We love you.

Hugs,
Pat



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