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Re: What to do

Author:
Melanie

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Date Posted: 01/25/09 11:22pm
In reply to: Elizabeth 's message, "What to do" on 01/25/09 9:49am

Wow...

That is not an easy situation to be in. The first thing I can tell you is that an abortion will not make things go back to normal. The second thing is that you need to tell someone about this. Does anyone else know you are pregnant? If so, do they know who the baby's father is?
Regardless of who the father of the baby is, it isn't just "his kid", it's your child as well. How do you think an abortion would impact you personally?

I know you are confused right now. That sounds like a very confusing situation to be in. But you do need to report this to someone and you probably should be seen by a doctor soon.

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[> Subject: Re: What to do

Author:
Pat
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Date Posted: 01/25/09 11:28pm

Hi, Elizabeth,

By all means, don't get an abortion. It's dangerous, and can harm you seriously. Obviously, if this guy is so much older than you are, you know what he did was wrong. But regardless of anything else, go to a crisis pregnancy agency for help. You might want to talk to someone online without revealing what state you are in first, to see how much of a confidence they can keep for you. Go here:

pregnancycenters.org

You can talk to them by email or by phone.

Your baby is depending on you for your protection. Please protect your baby. We love you both, and we will be praying for you. Do the right thing; follow your heart. Expect to be scared, it's normal, especially during the first trimester. But you can get the help you need, and even go live someplace else if necessary; they can help you with all of that.

Keep us informed. You are always welcome here.

Hugs,
Pat