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Subject: Re: New Here...Feeling Alone and Scared

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Heather

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Date Posted: 06/28/07 10:24pm
In reply to: Laurel 's message, "New Here...Feeling Alone and Scared" on 06/19/07 10:43pm

Hi Laurel,

I'm a little late in the discussion here, but I just read your post and wanted to warmly welcome you at all. I agree with Luka, too. Nothing you've expressed is at all out of the realm of perfectly normal. Pregnancy in and of itself can produce a floodgate of feelings and contemplations, some hormone related, others just because of the magnitude and wonder of it all. Adding to that the mixed instincts you're experiencing of protection for yourself and child from your ex and a desire to want to be a whole family - it's not surprising that you're at a real huge place emotionally.

Welcome, welcome welcome! That's what this place is here for. You're in excellent company of wonderful women who understand those feelings very well.

Regarding practical advice, the suggestion to look up your local Crisis Pregnancy Center, sometimes called Pregnancy Resource Center, is a must first step. They're a one stop shop for every resource known to pregnant women. All of their services are free, and they offer wonderful counseling, too. So many women just need to decompress from all the new things happening.

I hope you'll stay around and make yourself at home.

With Kindness,

Heather

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Author: Tracey [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 06/29/07 3:43pm Laurel~ Great to hear from you! Glad things are going well! Please feel free to stop by anytime! We'd be more than happy to help you in any way we can! Great to hear your step mom may throw you a baby shower...sounds like they're starting to come around! Please continue to come back and keep us posted! God bless, Tracey