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Date Posted: 14:35:23 05/15/16 Sun
Author: Gail (Hurting for you)
Subject: Re: How can someone be so incredibly horrible and no one sees it?
In reply to: Rachael 's message, "How can someone be so incredibly horrible and no one sees it?" on 05:31:34 05/15/16 Sun

So sorry you are going through this nightmare. Others will be along soon with good advice. I went through a similar nightmare to a man who everyone including me thought was the nicest, kindest man ever. Little did I know what he was actually capable of. Being older and empty-nested, I ran for my life as soon as I found out.

You have your dear children to think of. My concern is how do you raise them to be honest, decent people when their dad is setting such a poor example? I knew I needed to get away from deception and find a place of peace and integrity for myself. I'm hoping you can do the same for yourself and your children. Otherwise you are in for a lifetime of confusion and trouble and so are they.

Just my opinion, but I don't believe you can hide the truth forever, and what will they think when they find out who he really is? Family secrets are TOXIC.

Again, so sorry. Please take care of yourself and your children as best you can. Find support. Sending you strength.

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